You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Any esoteric way you can dazzle a woman...astrology, palm reading, cold reads, personality tests, visionary mind games, etc. Basically anyway you can give insight about her (women love to hear about themselves)Originally posted by lebRambo
forgive my ignorance, but whats a Chick Crack game?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
True....crack alone will not get you pvssy.Originally posted by Spirit Fingers
When you're doing things that are supposedly "chick crack," you're not attracting women. You're ENTERTAINING them. They will be entertained and laugh, then say, "oh, we've gotta go to the bathroom" and you will go home with nothing.
A girl does not want a geek who does ESP and card tricks. She wants a real man who can fvck her well.
-Dan
Right and these methods are subscribed to by the best PUA's in the world.Originally posted by Spirit Fingers
When you're doing things that are supposedly "chick crack," you're not attracting women. You're ENTERTAINING them. They will be entertained and laugh, then say, "oh, we've gotta go to the bathroom" and you will go home with nothing.
A girl does not want a geek who does ESP and card tricks. She wants a real man who can fvck her well.
-Dan
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.