"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chick blantantly staring at you and wanting you to know = strong sexual attraction??

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Yea theres this girl thats shown me some past IOIs, like one time I was in line for coffee and she kept looking back, but didnt make eye contact w/ me like she was looking for something, and after I didn't do anything she just walked away and shook her head as she was leaving( never even bought anything), another time as I was at a party and on my way to the bathroom she stopped me and asked me my name and shook my hand (she was the host so that was her reason, but still), another time I saw her checking me out at the gym. Now recently she was sitting down at a table studying and as I walked past on my way to class she was just staring at me. Like I looked at her and she never took her eyes off me, like she wanted me to know and was trying to send me a message.

Now what I want to know is how easy should it be to get some action from this girl? Pretty easy? I go to uni and so does she and we both live here so should I just make it pretty blantant what I want from the getgo and say something along the lines of "you wanna watch a movie in my room" or do I still have to play stupid games to get some? I mean when girls act like this, they only want one thing right? I don't think she wants a relationship or anything like that.

so how would you guys go about doing this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You have the green light. Play cool, be sexual but not creepy, make her laugh, and buy some weird cult movie, she can only see at your place.
 

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When girls are staring at you blatantly, they are thinking "Come and start talking to me before I lose interest". Has happened to me plenty of times.
 

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chick staring at you = wants your cawk
 

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It means that you should do nothing, then run home and start a thread called "chick blatantly staring at you and wanting you to know = strong sexual attraction?"

That way, you can wait for a bunch of virgins and keyboard jockeys to take a break from masturbating to post in your thread. Trust me, reading posts in this forum is SOOOO much better than getting laid!

Thick
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It means that you should do nothing, then run home and start a thread called "chick blatantly staring at you and wanting you to know = strong sexual attraction?"

That way, you can wait for a bunch of virgins and keyboard jockeys to take a break from masturbating to post in your thread. Trust me, reading posts in this forum is SOOOO much better than getting laid!

Thick
Oh my god that was the funniest sh1t I've read all night. Thank you for that.
 

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Xchange said:
Yea theres this girl thats shown me some past IOIs, like one time I was in line for coffee and she kept looking back, but didnt make eye contact w/ me like she was looking for something, and after I didn't do anything she just walked away and shook her head as she was leaving( never even bought anything), another time as I was at a party and on my way to the bathroom she stopped me and asked me my name and shook my hand (she was the host so that was her reason, but still), another time I saw her checking me out at the gym. Now recently she was sitting down at a table studying and as I walked past on my way to class she was just staring at me. Like I looked at her and she never took her eyes off me, like she wanted me to know and was trying to send me a message.

Now what I want to know is how easy should it be to get some action from this girl? Pretty easy? I go to uni and so does she and we both live here so should I just make it pretty blantant what I want from the getgo and say something along the lines of "you wanna watch a movie in my room" or do I still have to play stupid games to get some? I mean when girls act like this, they only want one thing right? I don't think she wants a relationship or anything like that.

so how would you guys go about doing this?
Whenever i catch the slightest glimpse of eye contact with a HB, I'll yell out:

"Hey! Quit checking me out!"

And play it from there, building from heavy C&F
 

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thickandcreamy said:
It means that you should do nothing, then run home and start a thread called "chick blatantly staring at you and wanting you to know = strong sexual attraction?"

That way, you can wait for a bunch of virgins and keyboard jockeys to take a break from masturbating to post in your thread. Trust me, reading posts in this forum is SOOOO much better than getting laid!

Thick
lol. you remind me of lewis black
 

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It either means something or nothing, the only way is by her giving you sex/date.
 

IamtheAlphamale

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Lust said:
Whenever i catch the slightest glimpse of eye contact with a HB, I'll yell out:

"Hey! Quit checking me out!"

And play it from there, building from heavy C&F
Man thats gold. I laughed when I read that. I bet that works gold. Hell I'm still laughing. I gotta try that at the bar tomorrow.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hmmm I wasn't really asking whether or not there was interest, but more how I should run this. Should I just be super direct, like introduce myself get to know her, flirt a bit, with a alot of sexuality and then just be like wanna watch a movie or whatever in my room, or would it be harder than that. Just looking for advice from guys who've been in this type of situation. Also I don't see her everyday or anything I just see her now and then so it's not like just anyday I can approach her, so thats why I posted this up. It can't hurt.
 

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well if she wants it and you want it...u know what to do.
Anyway never heard of that rule?
if she wants u immediatly, it could develop into long term if u want to, but if u dont want 2 and if she is not in a relationship, then i guesss u wont have anything to worry about.
Make sure u use condom and make sure u still game her alittle, u dont want to just give it 2 her like that, where is the alphaness in that move??
 

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thickandcreamy said:
It means that you should do nothing, then run home and start a thread called "chick blatantly staring at you and wanting you to know = strong sexual attraction?"

That way, you can wait for a bunch of virgins and keyboard jockeys to take a break from masturbating to post in your thread. Trust me, reading posts in this forum is SOOOO much better than getting laid!

Oh and don't forget you get to read classic posts from "cool guys" "on the internet" with "cool guy" names recycling "cool guy" phrases and dragging out the word "virgin" just for kicks when we know full well even the afc among afcs manages to get laid now and then.

So which is it... are you fat and 210 lbs or skinny and 150 lbs?
 
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