"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bingo-Player

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met a new potential plate on Saturday whilst i was out , brunette , laidback and good vibes ( my type ) b00bs are a bit small but there are good plastic surgeons out there

we spend perhaps an hour flirting in the bar touching joking blah blah blah , we exchange numbers and i tell her il be touch

hit her up last night with some smooth stuff and conversation is good

then towards the end she asks me am i a b00b or an A$$ man !?!

so because it was obvious she has got very small b00bs i simply said

" well considering im still talking to you what do you think ? "

she said "haha well you surely cant be a b00b man then"

then i left the conversation and went to bed because it was late didn't bother saying night or anything

i thought that was a bit of a wierd question for a woman to ask tbh

not really sure where to take the conversation from here , any views ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alpheta

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How can this possibly be confusing?

She thinks you are an ass man. Theres nothing more to it.
 

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" well considering im still talking to you what do you think ? "
Haa! Sh!t man, she must like you to reply to that. That was proper jerkboy response!

She's obviously insecure about it and was seeking your validation; which you kind of gave her, in a very back-handed way :D She's basically saying, 'I know I've got small t!ts, do you mind Bingo?'

That's funny as fck. I'd be interested to know how it turns out.
 

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How can this possibly be confusing?

She thinks you are an ass man. Theres nothing more to it.
i didn't say it was confusing , i said it was weird for a woman to ask that so early in the interaction phase

i mean ive known this girl like 24 hours and shes asking me if im into a$$ or t1ts ?

rare to say the least
 

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i didn't say it was confusing , i said it was weird for a woman to ask that so early in the interaction phase

i mean ive known this girl like 24 hours and shes asking me if im into a$$ or t1ts ?

rare to say the least
she wants the D I guess.

Doesnt wana play too many games just wants to get down.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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met a new potential plate on Saturday whilst i was out , brunette , laidback and good vibes ( my type ) b00bs are a bit small but there are good plastic surgeons out there

we spend perhaps an hour flirting in the bar touching joking blah blah blah , we exchange numbers and i tell her il be touch

hit her up last night with some smooth stuff and conversation is good

then towards the end she asks me am i a b00b or an A$$ man !?!

so because it was obvious she has got very small b00bs i simply said

" well considering im still talking to you what do you think ? "

she said "haha well you surely cant be a b00b man then"

then i left the conversation and went to bed because it was late didn't bother saying night or anything

i thought that was a bit of a wierd question for a woman to ask tbh

not really sure where to take the conversation from here , any views ?
She was basically laying her insecurities out right in front of you. Ignore it and stay the course
 

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I find it interesting that she was so direct about it. Usually woman try to figure it out indirectly by observing you. Basically, how you react when a woman with a full rack of ribs walks by;).

The timeliness of her asking this would make me believe that she is indeed insecure about it but also that it has defiantly been a problem for her in the past. (guy choosing "Genetically" gifted friend over her etc)

I do like your response to the question, tugged at her insecurities a bit. A nice touch.
 

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Your response was gold :)

The reason we need to use the technique of qualification with women when advancing on them is because they need to understand why you like them, or at least know that there is a reason. They are wary of men faking high interest and fear being perceived as "just another girl". She's interested in you and was actually helping you run some qualification.
 

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Well hanndled...

She was a little insecure and wanted to know you were attracted to her.
 

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met a new potential plate on Saturday whilst i was out , brunette , laidback and good vibes ( my type ) b00bs are a bit small but there are good plastic surgeons out there

we spend perhaps an hour flirting in the bar touching joking blah blah blah , we exchange numbers and i tell her il be touch

hit her up last night with some smooth stuff and conversation is good

then towards the end she asks me am i a b00b or an A$$ man !?!

so because it was obvious she has got very small b00bs i simply said

" well considering im still talking to you what do you think ? "

she said "haha well you surely cant be a b00b man then"

then i left the conversation and went to bed because it was late didn't bother saying night or anything

i thought that was a bit of a wierd question for a woman to ask tbh

not really sure where to take the conversation from here , any views ?
My response would have been:

"I am a woman's man".

For some reason "I like big butts and I cannot lie......." is playing in my head. Even though I am for certain a b00b man.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Big, small or nonexistent. If I can c-m on them then they are perfect.
 
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