Chick asked if she could call; she didn't

[itishe]

This broad I've been seeing for about a month texted me today to start a text convo. She asked me what I was up to, I told her and we fluffed for a bit. Anywho at the end she asked, "welp, can I call you later". I said, "Absolutely not". She replies, "oh ok :-(". I then make fun of her by acting like she's retarded and tell her I was joking.

She asked what time I said that it doesn't matter. Anywho ***** hasn't called and still isn't putting out I think it's time to move on.

They say man should have high standards. What would you do if a chick said she'd call but didn't... and still isn't putting out after a month (she's a virgin, so waiting for a tight ass ***** might be worth it).

 

[DJF or John Again]

Hey itishe.

You've been around here since December 2005, come on man you should know better than this lol.

I always set my focus on fun first, being sexual second, relationships last.

I think that a lot of guys get into trouble because they confuse the order. They focus on relationships first, that is, they focus on:

"What is she thinking?"

"Why didn't she call me back?"

"Why is she acting like this or that?"

"Why did she neg-hit me?"

These are questions that really you shouldn't focus on honestly lol, but if they would be asked they should be asked when you are at the relationship level.

So usually guys start there, and then it turns to alot of analyzing, and after days and hours of thinking too hard, actually the guy ends up doing nothing lol. Imagine staying up all night studying for a test to not show up in class the next day and take it lol.

So with most guys, it's like this, they focus on relationships first, studying second, and they hope this leads to fun, which will allow the guy to feel comfortable being sexual, which then leads to sex and the girl liking him.

How about this? How about....

Focus on Fun first, being sexual second, and just living your life? Yes that's right, don't even focus on relationships.

By focusing on fun you will be free, you'll have inner joy and peace. By focusing on being sexual WITHOUT PERMISSION TO DO SO, you will lead the women that you encounter with to also feel comfortable being sexual. Then finally, you take her horny little tail on your little happy magic carpet ride called life.

It's better this way itishe. I wouldn't never focus on relationships if I were you....becaue you can never analyze women and come out successful, you will only come out more confused then you were when you went in.

So just have fun, be sexual, and enjoy life, keep your focus on those 3 things...and women, money, and great health will flow to you.

- John

 

[Phyzzle]

If you guys made plans for some time, and she didn't call, then I'd say give up.

BUT you just said call "later". Later could mean next month. If you want to talk to her, just call her. Seems faster than asking her to call you via texting . . .

 

[Prof]

Look, if she is a virgin, she's a lot less jaded than most girls (I think). I would stick it out and, like the guy above said, focus on fun with her.

If you need help getting into her pants, feel free to ask. Personally, I'd just be making out with her as often as possible. Foreplay is gonna be the key. You've got to get her soooo horny she can't think of a reason to say no anymore. That means kissing her for a long time, running your hands all over her body (softly, and not just her breasts & crotch - EVERYWHERE!), and all that other stuff.

But we're getting ahead of ourselves. Think up some fun date for you and her to do, and do it. My routine is generally something active that'll get her heart racing, something relaxing, something 'chill' then on home. But, hey, be open, and positive! You've got a cute girl to spend some time with, afterall.

 

[itishe]

Hey guys, well she called about 20 minutes after I went to bed. As I had to work early this morning (going in a few minutes) I couldn't be up to late, so she missed my call and later tried getting ahold of me again and left a sad/dissapointed message.

Also about the dates with her. We usually go to a movie, shoot pool, or bowl then come back to my place and lay on my bed then watch tv or a movie. Each time I get a bit further. At first it was only making out, then she let me rub her breasts, then she let me flop them out, finally she took off her shirt. I also try working my way into my pants and I get a bit further each time.

 

[mrRuckus]

This broad I've been seeing for about a month texted me today to start a text convo. She asked me what I was up to, I told her and we fluffed for a bit. Anywho at the end she asked, "welp, can I call you later".

"No but you can come over later."

 

[Ripper]

Hey itishe.

You've been around here since December 2005, come on man you should know better than this lol.

I always set my focus on fun first, being sexual second, relationships last.

I think that a lot of guys get into trouble because they confuse the order. They focus on relationships first, that is, they focus on:

"What is she thinking?"

"Why didn't she call me back?"

"Why is she acting like this or that?"

"Why did she neg-hit me?"

These are questions that really you shouldn't focus on honestly lol, but if they would be asked they should be asked when you are at the relationship level.

So usually guys start there, and then it turns to alot of analyzing, and after days and hours of thinking too hard, actually the guy ends up doing nothing lol. Imagine staying up all night studying for a test to not show up in class the next day and take it lol.

So with most guys, it's like this, they focus on relationships first, studying second, and they hope this leads to fun, which will allow the guy to feel comfortable being sexual, which then leads to sex and the girl liking him.

How about this? How about....

Focus on Fun first, being sexual second, and just living your life? Yes that's right, don't even focus on relationships.

By focusing on fun you will be free, you'll have inner joy and peace. By focusing on being sexual WITHOUT PERMISSION TO DO SO, you will lead the women that you encounter with to also feel comfortable being sexual. Then finally, you take her horny little tail on your little happy magic carpet ride called life.

It's better this way itishe. I wouldn't never focus on relationships if I were you....becaue you can never analyze women and come out successful, you will only come out more confused then you were when you went in.

So just have fun, be sexual, and enjoy life, keep your focus on those 3 things...and women, money, and great health will flow to you.

- John

Excellent advice.

 

[djSlvt]

Yea. It's not about her, she's just a girl. If you'd fvck 20 a day, you'd still don't fvck your whole town, a lot of chicks turn 18 each year. Point is, she's just a girl. Nothing can be adviced from your thread, or at least what you want answered. But you need to change your thinking, and I'll address that.


Google out too short don't trust her. Read, that stuff is real. These are lines of wisdom from the real pimp:

She wanna ride down the sho' with the top back
But she know I gotta hit before we start that

All women want the whole thing before they give you sex. In a way they want an AFC but with a game of pimp. If the b1tch is holding on you, that means she wants to trade sex for something, like dinners, fun, and sh1t. If your b1tch is doing it to you, move on to the next hoe, there's too many b1tches around and it's not worth waiting for one.


You've waiting six months for sex. Ok. In her mind she has control over you. She likes it. Frame between you two is such that she controls you with sex. I don't care how young she is, a b1tch could be 12 (which is fine if you're in HS), if they are mature enough to want to be with you then they can fvck.


Now, the frame is already set, you can not change it. If you start acting like a b1tch around her, she will not give you sex. It's either you wait and get it, or you move on. First one is a waste of time, because like I said, there are too many b1tches to go around. It might not be a waste of time for you for whatever reason.


Remember, she is not important. Change that thing I told you about yourself.