Chick Appears Upset With Me Suddenly

[Bigtrucker2008]

Ok, I will make a long story short and ask for some opinions on what attitude I should have about this and what I should do:

Ok, one of my main chicks (let's call her "Girl A") who I've been messing around with for about two years now is upset with me for some reason. This may be jealousy about some other chick. I'm not really sure. But neither her nor her sister will admit what's the problem.

Now, the chick has admitted that part of it is about another chick. But of course, you never really know how true that is. She says "she knows me and the other girl have nothing going on, but she gets mad at me because of things she hears". I think that's bull****, because both that other chick and I have let her know that nothing is going on.

Girl A has shown me loyalty in the past and has told me she loved me, but has also had small moments of disloyalty that I made her get into it's proper place or I wasn't talking to her anymore. But what do I do now??? Because I honestly don't know what's going on.

 

[katatonia]

Yeah I'd say she is just jealous, which is good so I don't see what the problem is here.

Just proceed doing whatever you've been doing with Girl A for the last 2 years. Don't let her emotional state affect you and ignore her being 'upset' because that is probably just a way to gain more control over you and to stop you from seeing other girls.

 

[shaunuk]

She is probably just jealous and thinks you're shagging other girls, which she has reason to believe because you've been fvcking her on the side for 2yrs and not "committed" to her.

The above, and also the fact that she's said she loves you. . . well you don't really say those things in a purely fvck-buddy type relationship, so she seems to feel more for you than you feel for her. This could come crashing down around you if you're not careful.