"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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epicfail

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Hi,
Im what I would consider an epic looser. Im 25. A computer nerd. Single. Very ackward and clumsy. Suffer from lack of confidence and low-self esteem. I have a huge fear of talking in groups and girls. But I want to get better. I plan to take salsa, mma, public speaking classes to improve and have some balls.
Is there any AFC here that wants to learn social skills and go out and meet women in Chicago with me?
pm me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey buddy,
I'm also from Chicago. I wanted to send you email but you have that feature blocked in the forum settings. I think can help you regarding your dating/girl problems. There is this program that is amazing and has helped a lot of guys. I just took it myself. I can tell you more about it via phone or email. Send me message to: [email protected] and I will write you back.
 
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