Chic With BF Wants to "hang out"

[slickaz]

guys you need to help.

im stuck between my ethical thought and my elephant dik thought..

chic has a bf.
shes indian...shes hot!! like super hot (international beauty pageant winner)
finds out im popular and live on my own and drive a nice car.
wants to "hang out" over a "drink"

calling me and texting me nonstop till i gave her a date.

I asked her"you're bf wont mind?"
she: He doesnt have to know.

I would love to break into that,
ethically i shouldnt....should i?

technically, she is single, because they broke up a year ago but still kinda vaguely...

what would you do?

if you've made up your mind that you're going to tap it..
how? what would be your game plan?
i wanna hit it once n bounce!...

 

[MaddXMan]

Sounds like you can't lose - act!!

 

[slickaz]

so ur saying d it?
i mean i have to say i know im not going to regret alot..after doing it..but..

ok so the real reason why this is harder than the last time i tapped a girl with a bf...this time..i know the guy..and he is friends with my best friends..

last time i didnt have a face for the dude whose girl it was..but not so this time..

anyway im meetin her thursday pm..and hopefully my cars gonna get fogged up before my house does..

 

[Warrior74]

leave it. reprocussions.

 

[JFun]

The boyfriend is friends with your best friend? Big trouble.

Don't do it.

BTW that is information you should have mentioned in your first post...

 

[lordson]

you're going to screw over somebody you sorta know?

what kind of person are you

 

[slickaz]

oh C!MON!!!!! i dunno know the guy..

and besides how many guys screw their best friends girl!

im not one of those guys..

but i was asking what you would do if you had a hottt pageant winning girl throwing herself at you wanting you attention..

cmon? im talking D cups 32/28/36 long dark hair and tanned skin pretty face and skin like milk...plz! plz! plz! tell me what you'd do?!

 

[Igetit!]

If you were in a LTR,and some guy who you don't know and who doesn't know you fooled around with your girlfriend,would you have a problem with that? Or would you say,"Well,he doesn't know me,so it's ok,have at her."?

 

[slickaz]

I Get it!.........

im not going to do her...

its just sad..coz she says he dont do a good job..and apparantly they cheat on each other all the time..its like an open relationship..
but anyway im not going there!....

so..*&#%!!!!!!

 

[slickaz]

She called me last night and asked if we were still hanging out today.
i said "i dont think its such a good idea specially coz her bf knows my friends"

she just replied with ok, im coming over to your place on friday afternoon around 4pm, dont have ppl over..after you ill go see my bf at 8pm..

i was like...um..

ADVICE???!?!?!??!?!?!

 

[DonGorgon]

She called me last night and asked if we were still hanging out today.
i said "i dont think its such a good idea specially coz her bf knows my friends"

she just replied with ok, im coming over to your place on friday afternoon around 4pm, dont have ppl over..after you ill go see my bf at 8pm..

i was like...um..

ADVICE???!?!?!??!?!?!

TELL HER YOU CAN ONLY F HER FOR 30 MINS THEN SHE MUST LEAVE ..take control.

 

[snowdog]

Never stand your own happyness in the way. Fukk what anyone thinks, and especially fukk being PC.

Go for it man.

 

[lordson]

Never stand your own happyness in the way. Fukk what anyone thinks, and especially fukk being PC.

Go for it man.

you're a fuking dikhead and a horrible person



to the OP, if she's in a relationship, personally i wouldn't do anything, because thats agaisn't my morals and down right not right. if she wants to be with you, then tell her to break it off with the other guy, and ask her whats she even doing with him if she is going to cheat

dont be 'the other guy' and let her have a security blanket, its not fair either of you guys

 

[CosMoenTropic]

Just prepared to take a lot of **** if you decide to do it.. you pay for your consequences like a man

I know if I were the bf I would be pissed and go out of my way to get back at you in any way I can...

So my advice is.. Watch out! And don't get angry if **** happens to you that complicates your life later because you asked for it. If rewards>risk for you, go ahead

 

[get1]

If she is technically single I don't see a problem but take control don't play by her terms. I mean, tell her you can see her but on your terms doing what you want. Don't give her the power. Maybe she just want a **** buddy and uses the other guy as a provider...is this what you want? Ethically its a darker issue. If she genuinely is interested in you and breaking up with the bf for you that is cleaner ethically. IMO unless theres a ring on her finger as long as you don't manipulate she would have left him anyway...

There are a lot of girls mind you the world is too small to worry that your friends know someones ex or the person a girls seeing. If I worried about that I wouldn't get any fluff.

That being said, 2 choices would be get her to break up with him then hook in or hook in now. I guess the later you'll end up **** buddy status or rebound if they break up whereas the former is more a LTR play.

Upto you buddy.

 

[get1]

just another quick note mentally prepare yourself for this girl to be a head **** and in that case if she changes her mind or does a 180 or whatever you won't be concerned.

Do not invest emotionally in this - whatsoever!

 

[slickaz]

thanks guys..i definetly will not let her play me around...if i did anything itll only be fukbuddy status...

i will no way have a relationship with her..
i spoke to a friend of mine who says he knows her well coz he knwos her bf..he says she plays on him all the time..and he vice versa..so that being said i have a certain standard for the girls i go for and i certainly do not go for h to the izzos..
i called her and said im flattered but not interested..it only made her want to see me more for some reason..i guess that stuff really works.
i havent replied to her texts yet and dontintend on..but damn..

heres a pic of her


She sent this to my email asking me to rate it..its from her last pageant.
sorry about the size..i dunno how to get imageshak to enlarge it

 

[Kwothe]

Oh the Irony

Well you have such a great problem, hahahha gurls want to fck and i dont get any, hahaahahah, i wish i had your problem, ohhh

in my opinion, just do it man, she hot, you like her, beside you mention it like an open relationship, if she doesnt mind, and the bf cheats on her all the time, i think they ok. So if your up to it, just do it!

 

[KontrollerX]

Fvck her for as long as you can.

Just don't fall in love with her cheating ass because she will do the same to you eventually.

Simple.

And when and if you find yourself developing any emotions thats a signal indicating to you its time to cut it off.

 

[drak_ool]

as far as her bf, you sortta know him, so he s not your friend, so you don't care about him on bit, right?

I've found the best way to go about this situation is to meet them for drinks (even better when the girl wants to do it from the start) so she can tell herself she s not a slut because she was too drunk (even when it wasn't the case). Classical girl reasoning, don't try to find any logic in it...