"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chic trying to recruit people to beat me up?

timmylivingalie

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I talked to this one chic four times at the most. Most of the conversation was just small talk afc crap and a little c&f and she seemed fine about it and acted ok. She is in a service job and I was her customer the times I talked to her. But someone overheard her attempting to get people to beat me up. What did I do wrong Im confused? What should I do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HBK

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You do NOTHING!

Do not contact her again.
 

Who Dares Win

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You sure that someone isnt make fun of you?
Anyway as the heart breaker kid said avoid her and do not contact her again.

Otherwise just start having lunch in the closest chinese restaurant regularly, once you are familiar to the staff Im sure they will back you up with their kung fu.

(the last one was a joke, if you need back up befriend some jew lawyer)
 

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Troll.

Why would he ask what he did wrong when he didn't even tell us the conversation?
 

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i find it hard to believe someone will go through the trouble of recruiting people to beat you up when you have done absolutely nothing meriting a beat down..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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timmylivingalie

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ezio said:
i find it hard to believe someone will go through the trouble of recruiting people to beat you up when you have done absolutely nothing meriting a beat down..
Believe she may just be seeking attention.
 

timmylivingalie

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Atom Smasher said:
Troll.

Why would he ask what he did wrong when he didn't even tell us the conversation?
Im no troll this is the real deal I have been talking to this chick about 2 weeks about a total of 4 or 5 times and have had normal conversation, I did use a little ****y comedy about why she should carry my stuff for me, gave her maybe one compliment and that is it.
 

timmylivingalie

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Who Dares Win said:
You sure that someone isnt make fun of you?
Anyway as the heart breaker kid said avoid her and do not contact her again.

Otherwise just start having lunch in the closest chinese restaurant regularly, once you are familiar to the staff Im sure they will back you up with their kung fu.

(the last one was a joke, if you need back up befriend some jew lawyer)
Its possible he is a distant relative that just overheard the conversation.
 
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