Chic is clowning friend, BAD!!!!!

[TheLadiesMan]

..and no matter how I try to tell him, he won't listen. He keeps asking me for evidence, but no matter what I throw at him, he says that's not his definition of "clowning". ...last night after work she wanted to hang out with us, but HE wouldn't go to the club we wanted to go to, so she bailed, and all night he was pissed because she wouldn't drive 45 miles north to where he wanted to go. In all actuality, I think he's more pissed at the obvious, but continues to deny it.

I told him "Dude, sometimes you got to say what's on your mind. If she's being a b*tch, tell her!" ..he retorts with this "..I grew up in a house hold full of women, that's disrespectful. I wouldn't call my Mom a b*tch, therefore, I wouldn't call any other woman a b*tch." ...*shakeshead* ...I'm like "...your girl is being a b*tch." ...and after last night, drinking with him, I can now see why. Maybe that's why she enjoys clowning him so much(?).

I dunno what to say to snap him out of this, cuz he is really TRIPPIN!

 

[Docs]

Wtf. He ditched you guys because he wanted to go to some bar in a different town, and got pissed off at this chick for not wanting to drive an hour.

Man, kick this guy in the fvcking nuts, he's got to come back to reality.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Let him live in his own reality. You freaking out over his choices isn't beneficial to your reality.

 

[TheLadiesMan]

Let him live in his own reality. You freaking out over his choices isn't beneficial to your reality.

He's pretty much on his own now, unfortunately, I'm his bud and I just want to help him see the light.

 

[PRMoon]

He's pretty much on his own now, unfortunately, I'm his bud and I just want to help him see the light.

That's the best thing you can do for him. The only way hey'll learn is by making his own mistakes. Just remind him that you'll always be friends and you'll back him up when necessary, then hope he snaps out of it.