Chic I met in vacation wants to come to the states to work for 3 months and stay at my place

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Master Don Juan

Apr 28, 2022

The problem with these kinds of situations is that the woman most likely already knows that you want her. And she's already decided that she doesn't want you. But she knows that you like her and therefore she's hitting you up for 3 months of free rent in the USA.

If she's got you uncertain of where you stand that's exactly where she wants you and it actually takes quite a bit of skill and deliberate maneuvering on her part to get a man into that position and keep him there. It doesn't happen by accident.

So I'd say most likely she's a very experienced and cunning manipulator, rather than the innocent little flower that you might think.

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