Chesty chick laments that she never gets asked out on a date (... by attractive people)

[MatureDJ]

 

[SW15]

She has plenty of options just not the ones she wants. She is likely too fussy relative to her looks and personality.

 

[Robert28]

She has plenty of options just not the ones she wants. She is likely too fussy relative to her looks and personality.

All women are this way. Every woman alive is being asked out.

 

[SW15]

There's no reason why she hasn't been asked out in person based on her looks.

Here are some possibilities.

1. She has a bad case of resting biatch face
2. She barely leaves her home on a daily basis
3. She gets asked out, but by men who she deems inadequate

It's likely #3 though I could likely find fault with her daily routines in #2 if I heard more about them.

 

[nismo-4]

Man says he hasn't been asked out: Man hasn't been asked out.

Woman says she hasn't been asked out: Chad, Tyrone, Enrique, Justin, Charles, Richard, Fabio, Chang, Vishnu, and Hiroshi never asked me out. Bob and John creep me out!

Every woman gets hit on just for existing. Men predominantly date down. Men mostly have trouble getting sex barring getting hookers or escorts. Women have trouble locking down HVM's. They predominantly aim for the top S-tier men in the 10%, but can't get them to stay beyond sex.

Go into any of a woman's 5 inboxes i.e. FB, IG, POF, OKC, X, OF, LI, etc. We thought dimes had options! Nickels got options too, albeit for sex only. Hence the overblown egos and entitlement attitudes.

Competition is fierce. Every woman has a man in their life in some capacity, let's not kid ourselves.

 

[patb]

Competition is fierce for women in the same sense it’s fierce for a corrupt local government project. On paper there may be many contenders. In practice, the fix is always in.

 

[zekko]

Man says he hasn't been asked out: Man hasn't been asked out.

To be fair, it could mean that he's been asked out by a fat woman or two. Guys (not all) tend to discount fat women like girls discount non-Chads.

Then there's the fact that the attraction bar for women is lower. I can't find the actual statistics at the moment, but it's something like men find 60% of women attractive, and women find maybe 20% of men attractive. Women are built to be attractive, while men have to be exceptional in some way.

 

[patb]

To be fair, it could mean that he's been asked out by a fat woman or two. Guys (not all) tend to discount fat women like girls discount non-Chads.

Then there's the fact that the attraction bar for women is lower. I can't find the actual statistics at the moment, but it's something like men find 60% of women attractive, and women find maybe 20% of men attractive. Women are built to be attractive, while men have to be exceptional in some way.

Or they can be completely mediocre in every way, but just so happen to exist in her social circle. Either way.

 

[zekko]

Or they can be completely mediocre in every way, but just so happen to exist in her social circle. Either way.

Oh yeah, all sorts of things happen in real life. Everything definitely doesn't follow PUA theory. We're just dealing with percentages here.

 

[SW15]

Every woman gets hit on just for existing.

Men wish we would have that experience.

Go into any of a woman's 5 inboxes i.e. FB, IG, POF, OKC, X, OF, LI, etc. We thought dimes had options! Nickels got options too, albeit for sex only. Hence the overblown egos and entitlement attitudes.

Every guy would be impressed by the quantity of options.

 

[Ricky]

I think back in the day women got approached more in public but the frequency was lower than the apps now where guys from literally anywhere in the world can be messaging them.

good game is rare but women get flooded with options for sure

 

[MatureDJ]

To be fair, it could mean that he's been asked out by a fat woman or two. Guys (not all) tend to discount fat women like girls discount non-Chads.

Then there's the fact that the attraction bar for women is lower. I can't find the actual statistics at the moment, but it's something like men find 60% of women attractive, and women find maybe 20% of men attractive. Women are built to be attractive, while men have to be exceptional in some way.

It's OVER for UnexceptionalCels.

 

[SW15]

women find maybe 20% of men attractive....men have to be exceptional in some way.

It's possible that in the past women only found 20% of men attractive. That stat comes from data points from the dating apps.

In past eras, even if women found only 20% of men attractive, they were economically dependent on men. Many women found that they had to settle on some man for the betterment of their own lives, even if he wasn't in that Top 20%. Women would accept their fate in lives and make the best of the situation. In the past, women had less access to these Top 20% men. Top 20% men are now found in most average looking women's Instagram DMs and in her swipe app queue and social media DMs. This gets her mind thinking that she can get a Top 20% guy. She might get him for shorter term sex, but not for longer term commitment. Additionally, she doesn't need a man economically either. Millennial women born in the 1980s grew up in the 1990s-early 2000s after feminism had been entrenched. A larger portion of them got college degrees compared to 1950s-early 1960s born Boomer women or late 1960s-1970s born Gen X women. Millennial women with their college degrees can support themselves with their bachelor's and advanced degrees so they don't need a man economically. They want a man, but they will attempt to only get that Top 20% man. Top 20% women can legitimately demand a Top 20% man but the rest of women don't have a viable case for one.