"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not sure if this is the right section, but it seemed like the place to post this.

I'd rather not specify my exact age, but I'm under 18. I'm getting really self conscious about my treasure trail and the chest hair that's started to come in. I'm not fat at all, pretty well toned actually. I'm fit, and pretty muscular. Is this something I should feel self-conscious about?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you don't like it, purchase some clippers and trim it down. I take a 1 guard to my chest, stomach and pubes on a regular basis.
 
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I'm moderately hairy and I just keep it trimmed. No shaving. Some girls like the bare look, others like some chest hair. Cant please 'em all.
 
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Don't shave anything, trim if you must but shaving will mean you must continue shaving to battle the itch and potential ingrown hairs.
 
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I think a lot also depends on your body type.

I'm naturally very hairy on my chest and stomach, at 19% bodyfat it didn't bother me and my g/f loved it.

I got my b/f down to 10% and had it waxed off - makes your body look a hell of a lot more defined. Although I would think for people with a bit of flab around the stomach, could make them look worse.

Its grown back, and both me and my g/f want it back off. I feel like I'm from a 70s porn movie.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TyTe`EyEz said:
If you don't like it, purchase some clippers and trim it down. I take a 1 guard to my chest, stomach and pubes on a regular basis.
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I naturally have very little body hair, but there is a small patch above my chest that I have and remove. IMHO, epilators work better than razors. Much smoother, longer lasting results. Of course, it is more painful (an epilator is basically spinning tweezers that grab and rip out the hair), but really not bad. I also use it on my armpits and thighs.
 
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GilHarris said:
I naturally have very little body hair, but there is a small patch above my chest that I have and remove. IMHO, epilators work better than razors. Much smoother, longer lasting results. Of course, it is more painful (an epilator is basically spinning tweezers that grab and rip out the hair), but really not bad. I also use it on my armpits and thighs.
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That sounds painful, man. I can't imagine pulling the hairs out of my inner thighs. Ouch.
 
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I am a grooming freak and am planning to remove my chest hair completely. I want to look like the male models that sport a clean shave and a smooth hair free chest.

Is it less manly to remove chest hair? Do you like your man with a hairy chest or waxed chest?
 
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msspider said:
Do you like your man with a hairy chest or waxed chest?
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I don't know dude, you tell us. Do you like your man with a hairy chest or what?
 
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