"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chest Hair.. Yes or No?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tomatoes

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Why didnt you make the post into a vote?

No chest hair if you ask me. My belly and back is bare as they come. Shows off my body. My mate with chest hair cant stand it. He waxes it off. Still its a ****.

I have never known a girl to prefer a hairy bloke to a clean one.......



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Vulpine

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I trim mine in the summer, leave it longer in the winter.

If I let it go in the summer, it holds a lot of heat and keeps in sweat, and the hair gets pretty thick so it fux up my tan.

Chicks dig trimmed, or maintained. I let it get to about a quarter or half inch before shaving it down again. I think the bald look is a little creepy to women: It makes you look 13 years old.

They like to see you are capable of the "full-on manhood", and appreciate that you opt for the "clean and groomed" look of shaved or maintained.
 

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Ask this same question to women and the answers will be all over the board. I dated a women that loved hairy a$$ men and she thought I should grow my chest hair back because I shave mine. Now why would I be an AFC and do that??? To me it is neater to shave it off and it becomes a pain in the rear shaving it so often. I think in general, most women prefer no hair if that helps.
 

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I have a LOT of chest hair, and theres no way in fu(k I'm gonna shave any of it off. Its part of my mojo man, I just can't do that. If any chicks don't like it thats too damn bad. :down:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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manbearpig said:
I have a LOT of chest hair, and theres no way in fu(k I'm gonna shave any of it off. Its part of my mojo man, I just can't do that. If any chicks don't like it thats too damn bad. :down:

I'm in the same boat as you... I used to shave but decided it was rediculous and grew it back. I trim and keep myself neat but i don't shave anything bare.

I've had many women tell me how much they loved my hairy chest... usually when she's laying next to me and running her hands through it afetr we've just fvcked.

I never got any compliments on how neat my bare chest was, back when i was shaving it.:rolleyes:
 

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I tried shaving mine once. Felt like I was neutered.

Seems like one would trim it like they would trim a beard. Look at it at different angles and buzz off the parts that stick out.
 

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women like all sorts of different things, some love chest hair and some dispise it. it really just depends on the girl and most of the time, if they like you, they learn to like whatever kind of chest hair you got.
 

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Shaving your chest = gay
Being naturally hairless = alright
Having lots of hair = not bad

I'd never shave my chest/facial hair for a woman. Period. If they don;t like it, fvck 'em.
 
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