"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi,

I have been working out for several years and have had a consistent problem with this extra layer of fat over my chest. It is not significant, but it does affect the results I get when I hit the gym hard.

Are there any specific exercises or diets that I can do to get rid of this?

Note: I have done the push ups and bench press, but nothing seems to work.

Any help would be awesome.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Change your diet. There's no such thing as spot reduction, unless you want to take your chances with lipo dissolve. :down:
 

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hi all,
As you are working on it last many year yet you don't get result as wanted so now stop.
And try Smartlipo, was the first FDA approved laser lipolysis system to offer a revolutionary and minimally invasive procedure for the removal of fat. Using a high-powered laser, Smartlipo provides less downtime and side-effects than traditional liposuction.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if there's too much on the chest vs the rest of your body, gyno.
 

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Its pretty easy to make the fat slowly fade from your body. I'm super ripped all the time. My brother was over 200 pounds when he was in 6th grade. I ended up getting him on my plan and he lossed all that weight fast. The biggest thing is diet. Honestly, an easy way to get started is to stop eating after 6 o clock. The other one is to have a huge breakfast. Eat a ton in the morning within 30 minutes of waking up. I'm serious...these two tips are huge.
 

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after 6 .....that means you go close to 14hrs without food ..

That is a seriously long time without eating no matter HOW MUCH you eat during breakfast.

I say do the 5-6 meal plan eat healthy food and at night before you go to bed drink protein or some milk and cottage cheese.
 

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It's probably gyno. No matter how much weight I lose + muscle I put on there is always these matter making my nipples stick out. Not too mention my nipples are always puffy.

I have a consultation with a surgeon next thursday. I'm sure insurance won't cover it because you know men having tits is completely normal.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mrRuckus said:
Why should they pay for it? It's cosmetic.
It is traumatizing for one. This is not something I can get rid of on my own. I do not have this out of laziness.

Does insurance cover girls who are born with penises?
 

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You say to your insurance company that the gyno causes pain (which it can) and they cover it
 

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j0n024 said:
after 6 .....that means you go close to 14hrs without food ..

That is a seriously long time without eating no matter HOW MUCH you eat during breakfast.

I say do the 5-6 meal plan eat healthy food and at night before you go to bed drink protein or some milk and cottage cheese.
No it's not. You can go for days without eating without any ill effects.

Eat less. Simple as that.
 

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Mandiblard said:
No it's not. You can go for days without eating without any ill effects.

Eat less. Simple as that.

Which means that after a while your metabolism goes so slow that you begin to NOT lose weight by not eating. But whatever do what you want it's your body if you think not eating is the key to lower body weight then fine by me ...lol later.
 

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S.Y.L said:
You say to your insurance company that the gyno causes pain (which it can) and they cover it
This sounds good. I told my first doctor it caused pain and he began to examine me. He told me I used to have gyno when I was 15 or 16 and now I no longer have it.

I asked him if these puffy nipples, tissue, etc. will go away on their own and he says no. I will need surgery.

wtf? How do you get gyno, no longer have gyno (is this even possible), and yet require surgery to fix my chest?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You might have "Fake," Gyno.....

google it.
 

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I looked up pseudogyno pics and I must say this looks more like me than full blown gyno (where they actually look like boobs).

http://www.cosmetic-md.com/img/sections/pseudogynecomastia.jpg
If I were to look in the mirror sideways I would like the bottom left photo. My waist is flat but my chest looks exactly the same.


I'm gonna try to drop 10-15 more pounds and see if that helps.
 

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I just recalled a tidbit from my conversation with the doctor.

I asked him if I can get rid of this on my own and he told me not within the next ten years.
 
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