"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cheese!

diceman

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Hey everyone,

I'm on holiday from uni at the mo' & as i'm away from the gym i'm trying to get rid of the fat that's developed around my waist, while at the same time, focus on working my abs.

So, I've been eating ALOT of cheese (Mature Chedder mostly) cause i thought it was good for you & full of protein..

But is it? Or is this stuff just adding to the problem of my developing fat? Is it good for you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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simon

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It's not the cheese that's stopping you from losing weight. All you need to lose weight is a calorie deficit. Find out your BMR, use a nutrition calculator like the one at http://www.ars.usda.gov/Services/docs.htm?docid=7783 and work out how many calories you're eating. Fiddle with your diet and factor in some exercise to get a calorie deficit, and you will lose weight. Remember to keep protein intake high to prevent muscle loss.
 

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How much do you consider "ALOT" of cheese? Grabbing some cheddar from the fridge, I have a moderate-sized chunk in my hand that is 1600 calories (nearly three Big Macs, yipe!) and 80% of those calories come from saturated fat (the Big Mac gets about 50% of its calories from fat). Not exactly a health food. As a part of a balanced diet, sure, you need some saturated fat, but 80% of your calories?

If it's protein you want, there are lots of other ways.

That said, I love and eat a good bit of cheese. But it's calorie-dense, especially stuff made from whole milk (which is most cheeses, esp. the yummy ones). Read the nutrition label!
 

Warboss Alex

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penkitten - ?

as far as cheese is concerned, I consider it a healthy food if incorporated into the diet properly. i.e. use as a protein/fat source and make sure your fat intake is more or less equally divided between saturated/animal, monounsaturated and polyunsaturated fat. you can have lower fat or fatfree cheeses if this is an issue.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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