"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Checking Women or Calling their BS out

verysuave

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ive noticed over the YEARS ive really really improved on how to talk to women. But just recently when i thought ive reached my highest point ever that, i have now gone OVER that and discovered a whole new level..of gaming...(im sure some people here have already reached this level)

This level of GAMING (talking to women in a jerkish but classy) is more like throwing something back at them that they say to you or CHECKING them.. i guess that would be the word for it. Calling out the BS per say..

for example yesterday at work i leave and comeback

and this chick was like

HB: OMG, u are back already? Im so happy to see you
me: If you were so happy to see me, then how come you are not smiling?
HBL: Well.. im just trying to hide it (then she smiles)

or another example that happened:

me: (said a comment about something)
hb: huh, what?
me: nothing, get back to work
hb: (then she repeats what I just said)
me: So YOU did hear what i said!

or another example that happened:.

hb: OMG, its been like a long time since i worked with you. it was like last tuesday wendesday and thursday
me: well, at least your keeping track

anyone else here do this kind of talking besides me? share me your expiernces tnx
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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verysuave

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glad u are proud but i wasn't asking for your or anyone's approval. I was just simply asking for people to share their experience
 
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