checking the ladies out

[don_juan_20]

I've been reading up on the forums and have changed my attitude a bit. When walking down the street I now tend to check out girls I'm interested in. To the extent of making eye contact.

Is this a good move? Or should I seem elusive and pretend I don't notice them?

 

[In Sync]

Good question. So it's typical of this forum that people have avoided it.

 

[Eternal]

Walk down the street, if you see a girl you like, give eye contact, smile, say "hi" and approach.

 

[In Sync]

It doesn't work like that.

 

[FlyGuy]

Um, yes you should be making eye contact. Do you think you will find a lady by looking at your feet all the time?

 

[tx_xp]

Originally posted by crazykid
Walk down the street, if you see a girl you like, give eye contact, smile, say "hi" and approach.

You don't always need to approach but at least eye contact is good. A waive and a smile does wonders!

 

[DankNuggs]

Originally posted by In Sync
It doesn't work like that.

hey Justin Timberlake, it does work like that,

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by DankNuggs
hey Justin Timberlake, it does work like that,

Hey, he speared Brittney...Obviously he must have some really advanced techniques that we never heard of .

 

[In Sync]

Who's that?

Anyway, I have heard of a single person doing that. It would look pretty ridiculous.

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by In Sync
Who's that?

Anyway, I have heard of a single person doing that. It would look pretty ridiculous.

So you only know one person that will look a girl in the eyes, smile, and talk to her? What kind of gay people do you know?

 

[In Sync]

Most people "hooking up" tend to be drunk in a club, and then something comes from that somehow.

 

[FlyGuy]

Clubs aren't the only place to meet a chick. IMO parties are better than clubs. Cold approaches are more difficult but they are not impossible.

 

[In Sync]

You're speaking about Colorado, I'm speaking about the UK.

I know plenty of educated, fit, good-looking, healthy, confident guys and very few of them have any kind of passion for British women right about now.

 

[In Sync]

And they aren't gay before you spout that crap as well.

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by In Sync
And they aren't gay before you spout that crap as well.

If you haven't done or seen cold approaches before, then don't critisize them either.

 

[Kodiac]

If you see a girl you like, don't be afraid to check her out, don't be afraid to make eye contact, don't be afraid to say a HARMLESS "Hi".

What do you gain from NOT making eye contact ?
Eye Contact and Approaching are two big parts of being a DJ. Why is this even being discussed ???

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Definitely make eye contact and also notice something unique about her attire you can comment on.

When you pass just smile and say hello. Her responce will let you know if she's worth your effort.

Watch her after you pass and say hello, if she turns to look back at you, just ask her to stop. When she does, comment on that piece of unique attire that you noticed earlier. There's your opening, the rest is up to you.