"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Checking on her car and turning it into going out?

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So I had these girls come up to me that used to live by me, I messed around with the older one way back in the day and the younger one was way too young at the time lol. Anyhow they come up to me because I didnt even see them at the club, we start bull****ing, so I slip the old so wheres your boyfriends at line just to see whats up. The older one says over there and the younger ones like mine cheated on me after 3 years and I have been single for 3 months.

So I focus on the younger one and Im telling them about my shop and working on cars, eye contacts good, flirtings good, so Im diggin it. She tells me her cars not running right, so I said Ill see whats up with it. At this point I go to talk to some other people and right before we leave im like let me grab your number and Ill call you about the car, shes like sure! So I call her up and she comes out, well Im driving it and we are just shooting the ****, I told her she has to come back so I can test something else.

How do I work a date out of this? I have a Bike so I was thinking of inviting her out when we go riding, but Im up for any suggestions because I definetly dont want to F this one up!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If your going for another ride get her to stop by around supper after your cleaned up from work take an hour or two to check the car driving and at the shop if necessary, then while out in the car just say you never got a chance to eat supper and ask her if she'd like to grab a bite (a casual place diner etc..) so you can let her know whats wrong and how much everything will cost. Chances are she'll be hungry to and agree. From there you can quickly tell her about the car and get into a more indepth conversation c&f so she knows you better.

At the end of supper tell her to drop the car off in X amount of days and you can get things running smoothly again.....when she comes to get the car fixed after you finish it and a little C&F, ask her on go out for something to do sometime.

Not great but if she has any interest in you at all should land you a date.
 
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