"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ingeniarius

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Actually, watch out:

In Western tradition, an engagement ring is a ring worn by a woman indicating her engagement to be married. In some countries, such as the United Kingdom, it is worn on the left-hand ring finger, while in other countries, such as Poland and Ukraine, it is customary for the ring to be worn on the right-hand. By modern convention in countries such as the United States, the ring is usually presented as a betrothal gift by a man to his prospective bride while or directly after she accepts his marriage proposal. It represents a formal agreement to future marriage.


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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Engagement_ring
 

PRMoon

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I was just thinking about this today. I almost always check for the left hand o see a wedding ring. I was looking at a very nice looking woman going down to the pool today and I zeroed in on the left hand to see a diamond so big she could focus a lazer. I think it's a practice I've always done because it determines wether persuit should happen as well as concidered tactics. I always like to know what I'm getting into.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In America it's typically the left hand, although ya made me think: I noticed a co-worker today with an engagement-ring looking ring on her right hand. I didn't ask if she was married because I don't care, but I thought it was unusual. Maybe I'll ask and report back someday.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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Effington said:
In America it's typically the left hand, although ya made me think: I noticed a co-worker today with an engagement-ring looking ring on her right hand. I didn't ask if she was married because I don't care, but I thought it was unusual. Maybe I'll ask and report back someday.
probably just a fashion ring? women wear rings just to ****block nice guys from buggin them now a days. If you were to check the hands of most girls on a college campus you will see lots and lots with rings and many on the wedding finger and you know these young girls can't all be married.
 
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