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[blinkwatt]

I just turned 18 and went to a strip club. Saw this one lady who was dancing and she caught my eye,so I went to the stage and did the usual. She went to the other stage I followed. But this time I talked to her while she was up there trying to talk to her and testing her to see what her personality is, and she was genuinely nice. Time went on and I was about to leave and I asked her for a lapdance. We went to the room and she did her thing,while I did mine. But at about the 3rd we were chatting it up(talking about our jobs etc.),and I was already hitting on her,I just said f*** it and tried my best. We'll on the later lap dances I didnt stare at her body much but made eye contact with her. When she was done we talked about stuff and I asked her for her number and she said "I normally dont give out my number", and I responded with "Yeah but I am not like the other guys in here". Then she said "But I have a boyfriend" and i then said"what is wrong with a appetizer from the main course?" and she said "you have alot of confidence in yourself." The small talk continued for a little bit. I think I was getting to her cause she kept having eye contact and I kept making her laugh, keep in mind i only spent $40 on 4 lap dances so its not like I was being really dumb dropping hundreds or alot of money. Then I said "If you give me a one chance I promise you,you will never regret it." Then she said alright and she gave me her number and email adress( I think she actually thought something of me cause she took the time to rip a piece of paper apart and write down the info and not just brush me off cause the lap dances were over). She also commented along the lines of "Dont go about telling your friends that you got a strippers number."(Which also helped me to beleive that I made a impression on her.) After we headed back to the front I was abotu to leave and she gave me a hug,which I did not even try to iniatiate. How do you guys recommend I go about contacting her?

 

[DinoCassanova]

Contact her in the usual 3 days (at least) , if you really feel you should. But personally I agree w/ JC Jerkson there who posted just above me.

My experiences through the decade that was my 20's have led me to exclude the following girls, automatically: strippers who you think you really "hit it off with" while she was stripping/working ; any girl who $ells it who you think you really hit it off with while she was "working" ; any "shot girls" / beertub girls / ****tail waitresses at any club that you frequent who you think you really hit it off with while she was working. There are oftentimes several guys , on any given night, who leave one of those situations feeling that THEY were the one who really and truly "hit it off with" one of these kinds of broads. Usually all three of these are trouble, for slightly different reasons obviously, but they're all bad. But that's just been my experience. I personally wouldn't have anything to do with a stripper though. I worked at a strip club before and the girls are all f***ed up , and usually pretty badly, in one way or another. Hot or not, they're not worth all the baggage they bring into relationships. Try a psycho meth-head hillbilly biker-type jilted ex-b/f of hers (strippers seem to gravitate towards those types of guys) coming looking for you because you nailed his chick while they were still technically together.

Contact her at your own risk.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Stripper; 1) mentally unstable female who comes from a broken home 2) female who shows excessive enthusiam from male attention 3) female who was lacking a solid father figure in her youth 4) woman who puts her own self worth on her appearance, without her looks she has nothing 5) a female with more skeletons in her preverbal closet than most have in a life time 6) a girl that can only orgasm when a $$$$ is present.



Sounds like a great catch to me!!! Dood in all seriousness strippers have major issues, yes many of them seem sweet and are often very attractive but its an act bro. They have sooo many issues, so many fuvked up things they hide (drug addictions, rape, abuse, kids from multiple fathers, stds) that its much better to steer clear from them unless your in the club having a random fun night with your bros. I can't tell you how many stories I've read about guys on this board thinking that a stripper actually wanted them and how it turned out. Actually do a search and I'm sure some of those stories are still here.

Whatever you do don't expect anything from this.



PIMP

 

[Centaurion]

Strippers are great fun.

Everyman should have a stripper-experience under his belt. It' just another one of the lessons at the School of Hard-knocks.