"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
check this crap out! lol
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hollowpoint
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comic_relief
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what was your sn over there? I want to see some of the advice that they gave you
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Check out the DJ bible, half of the stuff at ASF is directly compatablie with what's in the bibile. Heck even gunwitches method is in there
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
diplomatic_lie
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Austin Allegro
Master Don Juan
It got me angry just reading it. But there's no point trolling - there's none so blind as they that cannot see. When a man is ready for the way of the DJ, he will find it on his own - he cannot be lead to it.
Austin Allegro
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Marcopolo
Senior Don Juan
http://datingadviceforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=15116
Lol.. they think this site is a how to score with chicks site and theirs isn't.
Don't they understand that we are not Nice guys or Jerks? We are Good Guys.
A true DJ isn't "acting" in a manner at all. He has improved himself and made every aspect of himself stronger. Success with women is linked to how a he improves his own life. This improvement isn't fake either.
I wonder what would happen if a woman who understands our point of view went over there. I'll bet they would all agree with her.
It is basically a forum run by femanazis and their male slaves.
here is a quote from the moderator.
yeah.. but as a feminist she is a doormat.
From some of the pictures of those guys, I would say that they are total losers.
http://datingadviceforums.com/forums/member.php?u=1930
check this loser out! what a laugh. look at his web site.
??????. wow.. I'm impressed.
they also don't like the fact that this site is full of guys who are in their 20's. They claim that their site is more mature because everyone there is in their 30's. hmm... well.. if they are so mature then why are they still seeking advice from women? shouldn't they have figured all this stuff out a long time ago when they were in their 20's? They guys on this site might be younger on average, but they will be far more successfull in life then those losers are now.
il_duce
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Jango_Xavier
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Evil-Rom
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Get out of the internet.