Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That's his problem. His "direct game" ain't getting his gheto ass zhit. He could do that for hours, yet nothing to show for. I didn't see anything productive he got out of it, except make some viewers laugh. As long as that was his objective, good for him.verysuave said:he just uses direct game. No technique or whatsoever. Thats just being himself.
Fuack the PUA crap. My definition of being Don Juan, Pick Up Artist = not being you.
If you want to be Don Juan, then it would have to be real YOU.
Nothing beats the natural game, the real YOU.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
First, because perhaps the parents of non-consenting age teeenagers do not wish footage of their child is posted online by a perverted, stalker sounding dude filming without permission. For a number of reasons. Just a thought.San Jose California said:Seriously, why does this happen, that as soon as I find a video, it's removed? All the time I swear...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Unfortunately age is not stamped on everyone's forehead. I have a sister that works at a mall that tells me about all the different approaches guys try on her. What can I do? Stop reality and the random occurrences of reality from happening?Noob said:i duno man, kinda creepy...
you have to remember that this guy is walking around with a camera in his hand. no one likes to be on camera, especially some random ghetto brothers camera. its also borderline sexual harrassment. not to mention that most of his targets were around 16..
im not hating on direct game, or this guy, but im just saying ya know, that if i was the recipient of his style of game, i would probably feel scared, and pissed of that hes filming me and referring to me as a hoe.
but ya know if it works for him, then whateva..
edit: actually i dont want to be soft on the guy, **** this prick. that could have been anyones little sister that he was harrasing.
You found your video, then you took the time to come here, start a thread, post the link, etc. Let me make it "more clearer than that". As soon as you find a video, get your hand on the mouse, and click cursor on the download link. THEN come here and post about how great the video is. After it has begun to get saved on yoru hard drive. Comprende?San Jose California said:\/
I don't really know how to make it more clearer than that.