Check out my Statement of Intent and Approach Strategy!

[Babnik]

Here is my approach to women in life and how the idea of respect and attention goes with that:

Women and people in general deserve as much from you as they are willing and are actually giving to you. I have a great sister and a great mother who care about me and do things for me all the time. I pay back the same and I buy them gifts once in a while and treat them like a nice nice guy.

A girl you just met did NOTHING for you. You just have to be a man and show interest and then see if she shows interest back. If not - leave her. If you are getting together, make sure she does for you as much as you do for her.

You should be buying flowers and gifts and be nice and sweet to a girl who has been loyal, faithful, caring, sweet and feminine for a long time. She is then worthy. You should do it to a wife who gave birth to your children and is being a real mother taking care of them. Of course, being a challenge and having a spark should always be there.

Be disrespectful to a women when she DESERVES it. You can an ******* in a ****y manner if she is NOT disrespectful to you. This way she knows you are playing around!

NOW - give me your opinion on THIS!

I am not spending time on asking a girl out to a coffee date and then finding out that it wasn't a date. Sometimes chicks don't catch your body language and intent so I want my approach to be bald!

I approach with just an intent of non-sexual interest. Don't freak out, keep reading. I just walk to her and want to know a BIT about her, because she COULD be a total b8tch and there is no need to want a woman like that. Then, I try to create sexual interest IF she is interesting and is OK.

What do you think of this thing?

I'm Russian and I have an accent. 90% of the time a girl will ask where I am from! I will say "Russia. You know anything about it?" she can say whatever, it doesn't matter, and then I say "So you never had the pleasure of dating a Russian guy?" yes/no - don't matter and then "Let me get your number and we'll see how it goes then!"

This way its bald and is within the conversation!

What ya think?

 

[Babnik]

bump!

 

[Faca]

Now i keep asking myself why is it you're not bitter and angry to women. Not had much experience or you found a way to remain cool in bad times? Most of the guys here, are too damn bitter.. and blame everything on the women. And maybe this is a phase we have to go through, i know i have!

You just have to be a man and show interest and then see if she shows interest back.

If she seems interesting, then i show interest. Just interest in as you said and no sexual interest, not that they don't unconsciously know that im interested. I never show interest in a girl verbally by telling her that i like her or anything. When i ask for her number and then for a date, that is showing interest.. And if she's good enough for me, then i'll date and eventually become exclusive with her. And i have a bad habit, but i never say that i like her, i show it non-verbally. Now some women may say we men have no emotions, but i don't care.

You should be buying flowers and gifts and be nice and sweet to a girl who has been loyal, faithful, caring, sweet and feminine for a long time. She is then worthy.

Sounds nice, but does it work for you? I never buy flowers, and gifts only for her birthday or some other special occasion. I think that you can be nice and sweet, but then without any intention. A lot of people are nice and sweet, because of their fear that otherwise their relationship is over. I would say, let her first be nice and sweet, and she will if she's attracted to you.

Women are very adaptable, if they want something they should be the first to make compromises. After that you also can, if you feel you want to.

Be disrespectful to a women when she DESERVES it.

When does she reserves it, if she's disrespectful to you? Now in the first place you shouldn't be with a women that is disrespectfull to you, and if she is then don't play those stupid games. Just show them who's the MAN.

I approach with just an intent of non-sexual interest. Don't freak out, keep reading. I just walk to her and want to know a BIT about her, because she COULD be a total b8tch and there is no need to want a woman like that.

Sounds good, first see if she aint a ***** and then go further. Walking to her and wanting to know a bit about her, sounds to me like an job-interview conversation. Isn't it better to start with something interesting..

Then, I try to create sexual interest IF she is interesting and is OK.

Try is the first step towards failure! Now you can or cannot create sexual attraction, and know it's up to her to react to it.

"So you never had the pleasure of dating a Russian guy?"

haha, good one!

Just my thoughts!

 

[Babnik]

Now i keep asking myself why is it you're not bitter and angry to women. Not had much experience or you found a way to remain cool in bad times? Most of the guys here, are too damn bitter.. and blame everything on the women. And maybe this is a phase we have to go through, i know i have!


If she seems interesting, then i show interest. Just interest in as you said and no sexual interest, not that they don't unconsciously know that im interested. I never show interest in a girl verbally by telling her that i like her or anything. When i ask for her number and then for a date, that is showing interest.. And if she's good enough for me, then i'll date and eventually become exclusive with her. And i have a bad habit, but i never say that i like her, i show it non-verbally. Now some women may say we men have no emotions, but i don't care.


Sounds nice, but does it work for you? I never buy flowers, and gifts only for her birthday or some other special occasion. I think that you can be nice and sweet, but then without any intention. A lot of people are nice and sweet, because of their fear that otherwise their relationship is over. I would say, let her first be nice and sweet, and she will if she's attracted to you.

Women are very adaptable, if they want something they should be the first to make compromises. After that you also can, if you feel you want to.


When does she reserves it, if she's disrespectful to you? Now in the first place you shouldn't be with a women that is disrespectfull to you, and if she is then don't play those stupid games. Just show them who's the MAN.


Sounds good, first see if she aint a ***** and then go further. Walking to her and wanting to know a bit about her, sounds to me like an job-interview conversation. Isn't it better to start with something interesting..


Try is the first step towards failure! Now you can or cannot create sexual attraction, and know it's up to her to react to it.

haha, good one!

Just my thoughts!

Well, how can you create sexual interest from the very beginning? I'm not good with touching grls at first. If its at a mall or some public place - I just don't do it. I do it in clubs and bars.

Besides looking her in the eyes, how the hell else do you create sexual tension?

I read through that stuff so many times but there is only so much body language you can create upon FIRST approaching a girl?

What if you look at her sexually and she isn't? She can just look at ya for a sec like at any other person and then go do her thing...

 

[Faca]

What if you look at her sexually and she isn't? She can just look at ya for a sec like at any other person and then go do her thing...

Your problem is that you worry too much, it shouldn't matter if she is or isn't. Just search the forum, there's enough about this subject.