"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Check out my clothing company guys!

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What's up guys, I'm lefty. In my 1st semester of college but i usually post in the hs forum. Anyways,

So I've recently started an online clothing company. I'd appreciate it if you guys took a second to check it out, and buy like 50 shirts. :D

Facebook page: http://www.facebook.com/zurwear?fref=ts
Website: http://zurwear.com/

Thanks bros.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bradd80 said:
nice website, well done.

have you managed to bang any of the hotties modeling your gear?
Ha no i wish. They've all become good friends.

This one has a bf, or else i would -> http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?f...30495.499833476698159&type=1&relevant_count=1

Went to prom back in the day with this one, but she's psycho -> http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?f...30495.499833476698159&type=1&relevant_count=1

I did hook up with a different one, but my associates said her pics were "too provocative" to put on the site.

And thanks a lot man, it's nice to hear good feedback.

Give the fb page a like if you could, it really helps spread the word.
 

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shiopfy websites tisk tisk tisk

https://zurwear.myshopify.com/admin/auth/login

i really do not understand why people are hell bent on using this ****ty platform. no offense op

edit: i'm not in a great mood right now and i shoudl not have said that. it's fine for what you are trying to do.

I don't like it beucase it's inflexible with the designs you can do. All shopfiy/wordpress sites look alike once you look at enough of them that's how i knew it was a SF site.

you can't do this



http://thesnowlife.net/index.php (we just finished this a few days ago client has not uploaded products yet)

on SF.

that's why i don't like it.


also and on a more important note, your META tags aren't setup correctly. the description is too long, it's not what is supposed to actually be there and there are no keywords.

also i just noticed that you had the same META description for every product or at least the 2 i checked, that's not gonna work either. this is how google finds / indexes your site.

i mean the site has potential, i actually kinda dig the shirts, seriously, but you need to sit down and really go through the SEO aspect of the site if you are going to stick wtih the platform beucase you are leaving money on the table.


i also took the liberty to go through the checkout process and notice that you use both google checkout, i think that's what that is that is integrated and paypal. that's cool but if possible upgrade the paypal to paypal pro i think you have the regular paypal.. you really don't want people leaving the site if possible and regular paypal does that, paypal pro does not. you can upgrade accounts in your paypal account.

your site could use a newsletter function, it doesn't have one, nor does it have (at least i can't find) the social media links that's a big no no. both are really easy to implement and it's free business/money.

i dont' like the terms of use / tech stuff being in the header of the site.

there's no reason for your site to have a blog take that off it's just taking space. i now see the social media links. If you want me to i can add the social media icons to your site it wont' take long but i cant' do it until probably sunday i have to go out of town tomorrow morning.

i like the design but the home page takes up too much space for no reason, the middle part with the words all that can go. replace it with a featured items bold header

also never use any character except for hypens in your meta title, the commas aren't gonna work

lol i just realized this is my 9000th's post.
 
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Backbreaker used to design websites for a living so that's why he's saying what he's saying.

@Alex

being your age, i think Shopify is a great way to start out. It minimizes your cost which is really important. It's a huge rip-off on your profit but it's easily customizable, looks fresh for a page that uses templates, and it takes credit card payments without you spending a nightmare of time or money to set it up.

Unless you have 500-5k ready to build a website, i'd say Shopify is a great place to start while you build some steady traffic. SEO is important so you can pay shopify to do that or get some free tips out there that are available. I would create a Facebook group for ZUR and a twitter account and tweet your deals onto Facebook, etc. Add a mailing list.

E-mail blast all friends and family and about your grand opening. update FAcebook daily, etc. I was actually going to start selling dresses with a designer friend of mine but it didn't work out.

Congrats on starting you own business.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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Thanks Agent!

Backbreaker:
Thanks for all the feedback! Though, I'm not actually in charge of creating the website.. I have the ability to edit it, but i'm not the one who set it up, and i'm not really sure how to edit most parts of it. I think it would be best if we could talk in a more streamlined fashion through IM or on facebook when you get back on sunday. Let me know, because I'd really appreciate your help since you seem REALLY good at this, and I'd love to learn everything I can from you.
 

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