She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Well...good to see thats the only problem. I guess everything else is ok. I find it interesting how thats all you had to say...i have a feeling youre not a fan of myspace.Vincent said:
The idea behind myspace is decent. Just so few pages are made well. It's like the modern geocities. Plus they're all so generic. It's all the same thing on each page, some survey, some pictures, blah blah blah. Then I really hate the fact that peoples songs auto play. I wish that I could turn that crap off. I don't want to hear whatever yellow card or taking back sunday song is popular this week. If I want to listen to your music it should be an option.oakraiderz2 said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I guess I should take that survey, those pictures, my blog and my song thats on auto play and get them off then. lol just kidding I have none of that.Vincent said:
