"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Cheating situation

Comatozed

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I wanted to get some of your guys input on a situation my friend has been through, as i haven't been around long enough to see any similar situations.

His gf got off with another guy at a club, she didn't sleep with the guy, but it was more than one kiss, it was an all night thing.

He decided to stay with her after making her sweat it out for a week, on the basis that it was only a kiss and not full sex.

They are back to happy couple now, but my question is, can this be recovered from or is it likely to happen again in the future?

The guy has pretty tight game and it was a shock when it came out, as the girl seemed not the type.

I know a lot of you will say get rid, and that was the view of our group, but it's easier said than done when your in an ltr.

any past similar situations to draw from?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is the era of the hook up culture....99% of girls arent staying faithful.

Gotta roll with the punches
 

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_sideways_ said:
This is the era of the hook up culture....99% of girls arent staying faithful.

Gotta roll with the punches
From the way people talk here, the guys are just as unfaithful. As you said "hook up" culture.

What's funny though is everytime I see people say "hook up" I think of how dogs "hook up" and lock into their bytch and sometimes even drag them around for a bit. (Seen it happen and felt so bad for the female dog).

Epi
 
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