"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cheating on someone is worthless.

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Cheating on someone is worthless in my opinion.

I see absolutely no point in it.

If things aren't working out for us I choose to leave and move on with my life. Same as she should.

Someone wants or decides to cheat on me they are doing me a favor of letting me know the type of person they are.

I have no time for useless people like that other than to completely cut them out of my life.

Like people have said: A chick is only in my life to compliment it. Not be the whole of it.

And I can tell you for damn sure when I implement no contact, I go full and total no contact. No looking back, no emails, calls, texts face to face period.


There are no failures in life. Only learning experiences.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I agree, and I'd like to add something else. Cheating destroys trust (obviously). Even if she doesn't find out, it compromises your trust with her. If you cheat and get away with it, your relationship will usually be "broken". After all, if you cheat on her and she doesn't find out, what if she did the same thing to you? Self-doubt usually sets in after a while, and even though you might not notice it, it does affect your actions, i.e, becoming more possessive, clingy, etc... I've noticed this happens in most of the relationships I've personally cheated in, and those I've observed. Besides, if you're cheating, you just get out of the relationship/stay single, I learned this the hard way.
 

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Audiophile said:
I agree, and I'd like to add something else. Cheating destroys trust (obviously). Even if she doesn't find out, it compromises your trust with her. If you cheat and get away with it, your relationship will usually be "broken". After all, if you cheat on her and she doesn't find out, what if she did the same thing to you? Self-doubt usually sets in after a while, and even though you might not notice it, it does affect your actions, i.e, becoming more possessive, clingy, etc... I've noticed this happens in most of the relationships I've personally cheated in, and those I've observed. Besides, if you're cheating, you just get out of the relationship/stay single, I learned this the hard way.

Cheating is the cowards way to do things. A real person would decide if the realtionship isn't working and discuss it like an adult while either working on it or parting ways.

Unfortunately alot of society is insecure and need to either branch swing or have their cake and eat it too while attempting to fly under the radar.

In the end they're only fooling themselves and have no character no matter what their faux Flakebook friends or the media etc tells them. Those people are just lemmings.

I have character, integrity and inner strength. If someone doesn't like it that's too bad. They'll just have to deal with it or waddle their clueless ass off a cliff.
 

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Cheating can be fun. I am particularly fond of married women and usually a single girl cannot get my attention (she has to really have some special traits in order to do so).

Many married women already have security and just need a little adventure. This is perfect for me.
 

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everywomanshero said:
Cheating can be fun. I am particularly fond of married women and usually a single girl cannot get my attention (she has to really have some special traits in order to do so).
You should look up the definition of "hero". That word does not mean what you think it means.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Relationships are worthless in the first place.
 
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