Cheating on party islands.

[jhonny9546]

Spend just a week watching what men and women do on vacation in the most famous party spots, like Mykonos, Malta, Ibiza. From my own experience, both men and women travel in groups, and once there, everyone’s “hunting.” My friends were approached several times by groups of very attractive women.
My friends aren’t “Chads” or especially mature, yet these women still made the first move.
Some were in relationships, others claimed to be single, but probably weren’t.


So, when your gf says she’s going on a trip with her friends to places like this, you may trust her because you don’t want to dwell on it, but if she cheats, she’ll do it, and you’ll never know.
So how will you agree with this? She won't be taking any trips with her friends?


P.S. These spots are also full of bachelor and bachelorette parties; both men and women often cheat on their future spouses. A friend of mine wanted to organize a bachelorette party for one of them, but it was very clear she was using this motive to avoid being controlled by her boyfriend and go somewhere else to **** a chad, only to then return as if nothing had happened.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

How to navigate this situation:

Tell her its fine, you will go to Thailand on a boys trip for 2 weeks.

If she doesnt care, her respect for you is gone and your relationship is over.
Act accordingly and dump her, ASAP

 

[Westminster]

Just tell her that you don't take seriously any woman who goes away on 'girl's holidays, batchelorette parties and similar activities. If she goes ahead, you finish the relationship or use her as a plate until you find better because she's made it clear that she has other priorities.

 

[jhonny9546]

@Westminster Centered the point.
You want to leave a woman freedom, and it's a cultural thing to let her doing girls holidays and batchelorette parties or "weekly aperitif" with her female friends. They also need that time to socialize and to have their own life. But those are very strict boundaries you want to apply to her.
@ThisIsSparta Acting like that actually makes you into her frame.

 

[SW15]

Mykonos, Malta, Ibiza. From my own experience, both men and women travel in groups, and once there, everyone’s “hunting.” My friends were approached several times by groups of very attractive women.
My friends aren’t “Chads” or especially mature, yet these women still made the first move.
Some were in relationships, others claimed to be single, but probably weren’t.

So, when your gf says she’s going on a trip with her friends to places like this, you may trust her because you don’t want to dwell on it, but if she cheats, she’ll do it, and you’ll never know.
So how will you agree with this? She won't be taking any trips with her friends?

Party islands are more of a thing for European women than United States women. If a United States woman travels to an island to cheat, it's more likely Hawaii or a Caribbean island. I think the top destinations for USA women looking to cheat are not islands. They are Las Vegas and Miami. Nashville is high up on the list due to it turning into a hub for bachelorette parties in the last 15 years. Phoenix/Scottsdale is also a common destination in the winter months.

Rich Cooper has advised men to break up with women if they go on Girls Trips while in a committed relationship.

These spots are also full of bachelor and bachelorette parties; both men and women often cheat on their future spouses.

Bachelorette parties cheat less than one might think. Those groups are more about getting attention than actual sex.

Bachelor parties don't have that much cheating either. Most men are invisible to most women.

 

[characternote]

As a Brit I am well versed to the party Islands!
Most people here go to places like Magaluf (we call it SHAGalauf!) from the age of about 16-17 where everyone just goes to have as much sex as possible and get very drunk. Girls and guys go in big groups. (I went with 16 friends at the age of 17) - Everyone tends to bang. It TENDS to carry on where people go back to that island every few years, or maybe Ibiza as they get into their 20's or places like Kos etc. There's a handful of them where all Brits go too. kInd of a tradition really. I've been to most of them. Seen it all. Yeah, if your girl goes there with a bunch of friends, they're probably all gonna get banged!

It was actually about that age when I was 17 or so on one of these holidays that I got truly red pilled/black pilled/whatever you wanna call it lol. First time i'd seen my slayer friends true power! (we'd always kind of known who the 'good looking' guys were just from girls flirting with them at school but this was the first time seeing them in an environment with tonnes of young stranger girls from different cities, with alcohol flowing etc. Man I was jealous!! haha)

 

[ThisIsSparta]

@ThisIsSparta Acting like that actually makes you into her frame.

No it doesnt.

If you are of any worth to her she will immediately stop talking about a girls trip to prevent you from going on the boys trip.

If she still wants to go, you dump her and go or dont go on the boys trip. End of story, end of frame.

 

[HaleyBaron]

How to navigate this situation:

Tell her its fine, you will go to Thailand on a boys trip for 2 weeks.

If she doesnt care, her respect for you is gone and your relationship is over.
Act accordingly and dump her, ASAP

My friend did this to an ex. When he returned, she was so self conscious, they fvcked all weekend.

 

[Jor-El]

Every time I go on holiday the missus gets pregnant, so next year I’m taking her with me

 

[CornbreadFed]

I've been to all of these islands and never encountered anything. Maybe it was like this back in the day, but I didn't personally see anything that gave out instant sex.

 

[Bingo-Player]

These places tend to attract a very specific type of person that feeds off of flex culture and fake reality

often filled with fake alpha types throwing money or credit cards around , fake designer clothing , women with plastic surgery, barely there bikinis and 5k paid insta followers

when you put this sort of crowd in a very highly strung environment almost every interaction immediately becomes like a competition .... if your girl isn't of sound mental state she will get sucked into this false reality and from there anythings possible

I went to all of these islands in my 20's as I got older I started to realise their just a bit sad and empty

 

[jhonny9546]

No it doesnt.

If you are of any worth to her she will immediately stop talking about a girls trip to prevent you from going on the boys trip.

If she still wants to go, you dump her and go or dont go on the boys trip. End of story, end of frame.

It sounds like "ricatto" which translate in blackmail? Is that correct?

Like something you do with kids.
"So guys, if you don't come and shower by 8:00 PM, then there won't be any ice cream for you after dinner."

My friend did this to an ex. When he returned, she was so self conscious, they fvcked all weekend.

What is their situation today? How was their LTR?

@Bingo-Player
Your girlfriend could go once a year, not travel much, yet still get laid, come home, and you'll never know anything, because she went with the group of "all married" and "mom" friends.

 

[coldapproach]

Gorilla sexo.

 

[coldapproach]

Sex hunting on Mykonos and Ibiza.

 

[coldapproach]

Sex hunting on Mykonos and Ibiza.

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[coldapproach]

I've been to all of these islands and never encountered anything. Maybe it was like this back in the day, but I didn't personally see anything that gave out instant sex.

Why is that

 

[coldapproach]

Gotta spend more next time

 

[Bokanovsky]

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[coldapproach]

Why hasn't this bot been banned already?

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[coldapproach]

It was actually about that age when I was 17 or so on one of these holidays that I got truly red pilled/black pilled/whatever you wanna call it lol. First time i'd seen my slayer friends true power! (we'd always kind of known who the 'good looking' guys were just from girls flirting with them at school but this was the first time seeing them in an environment with tonnes of young stranger girls from different cities, with alcohol flowing etc. Man I was jealous!! haha)

I got the power brother