ThunderMaverick
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 19, 2004
- Messages
- 1,945
- Reaction score
- 70
- Age
- 44
Uh..Yeah. That'll teach him.
*lazily shakes fist*
*lazily shakes fist*
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Cheating on Girlfriend...need advice/help
- Thread starter Happiness Renewed
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
You are a royally androgynous douche. A real man would be a man of DIGNITY, who would be able to SAY NO, because he knows that he doesn't need to go cheating in order to think he's more manly. If a man wants to play around, he shouldn't pretend he's being exclusive to her in the first place. Punch yourself in the face.
*yawn*
Why do 80% of these threads end up in people flaming eachother and end up being totally off the topic of the original thread starter?
P.S.: MetalFortress u suck... shut up!
Now as i was saying... who here has ever had a rabbit as a pet?
Laterz...
Why do 80% of these threads end up in people flaming eachother and end up being totally off the topic of the original thread starter?
P.S.: MetalFortress u suck... shut up!
Now as i was saying... who here has ever had a rabbit as a pet?
Laterz...
Royal Elite
Banned
And here we have another female posting as a man, or a man who unscrews his piece and gives it too his girl (if he has one) before he leaves for work everyday. Men have been polygamous from the beginning of time but I guess MF and his feminist friends believe that nature was mistaken for all these thousands of years. Listen Metel fortress the oprah and Dr pHil forum are at www.iamnolongeraman.com.
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2002
- Messages
- 5,550
- Reaction score
- 18
- Age
- 47
- Location
- Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
Anyone who thinks that loyalty, dignity, and self-respect are not traits that a real man should want is a moron, period.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
I dumped HB 8. End of story.
Happiness Renewed
Don Juan
K, HB 8 got back with me, but she dont know about the other one, lol...here i go again lol.
AnkleBreaker
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 29, 2004
- Messages
- 61
- Reaction score
- 0
Way to go pimpin, who cares though your not married
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
As per DJ policy.... play it cool.... You're the prize and this is what happens....
However, I must stress that you should properly manage their relationship expectations....
However, I must stress that you should properly manage their relationship expectations....
SageOFAllenAge
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 2, 2004
- Messages
- 231
- Reaction score
- 0
- Age
- 43
My friend who left his ex & moved onto the next, had the ex go on a crusade & since both the chicks had common friends had all the info sent to the current.
Watch out for those blogging chicks!
Watch out for those blogging chicks!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
IF one of them finds out about the other, you can never go wrong by saying :
"Yes damnit, I F*CKED her...but I make luuuuve to you baby."
it's a sure winner.
"Yes damnit, I F*CKED her...but I make luuuuve to you baby."
it's a sure winner.*sigh*
Listen guys...if you want to date and mess around with multiple girls you just shouldn't get a girlfriend. It's that simple. I mean, if you were already dating both of them and want to continue to date both of them then what is the point of starting a serious relationship with one of them? It's misleading to the girl you got involved with and just plain unfair to her. If you wouldn't want someone to do you that way then it's a good idea not to do others that way.
Want a girlfriend, then get one and be a boyfriend to her.
Want to date around, then just date around.
Why on earth add complications and issues that will ultimately lead to innocent people getting hurt. It's just really uncool.
Listen guys...if you want to date and mess around with multiple girls you just shouldn't get a girlfriend. It's that simple. I mean, if you were already dating both of them and want to continue to date both of them then what is the point of starting a serious relationship with one of them? It's misleading to the girl you got involved with and just plain unfair to her. If you wouldn't want someone to do you that way then it's a good idea not to do others that way.
Want a girlfriend, then get one and be a boyfriend to her.
Want to date around, then just date around.
Why on earth add complications and issues that will ultimately lead to innocent people getting hurt. It's just really uncool.
Oh man...this attitude SO makes me lose respect for you.
Honestly...if a guy wants to play the field, that's his right...all the more power to him. But a guy that wants that really doesn't want a relationship. If he doesn't want to settle down with one girl then he simply shouldn't get involved on that level. There is just something SO inherently wrong with misleading someone and allowing them to invest time, energy and their heart into a relationship with you if you have no intentions of doing the same. If you wouldn't want a woman to do something to you then you likewise shouldn't do that to her.
It is SO easy to just say, I'm not ready for a relationship...this is all I can offer you right now. If she likes you she will still see you...but you don't mislead her and you give her the choice to accept things as they are or go pursue something different with someone else. Anything less than that is simply unfair.
tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
Man i hate these cheating threads .. 'real' men and women with pride and integrity don't cheat. They break it off first.
ThunderMaverick
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 19, 2004
- Messages
- 1,945
- Reaction score
- 70
- Age
- 44
Want a girlfriend, then get one and be a boyfriend to her.
Want to date around, then just date around.
Why on earth add complications and issues that will ultimately lead to innocent people getting hurt. It's just really uncool.
That's it. Case closed.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
hmmmm
Seems to me like you actually want to see for yourself what happens when these two meet. I'm sure you've run a bunch of different scenerios through your head about what exactly is going to happen. I guess it's your life but you should probaly expect the worst but you could always hope for something positive to happen... whatever that could be.
I don't know I mean you could potentially hurt one or both of these girls but I mean its just two more people on the planet i suppose. A lot of people would tell you that what you're doing is wrong and you should be ashamed of yourself but really you're just another human doing what it is that humans do. Not saying I approve of what you're doing but at the same time I don't think it's wrong.
If you guys want to see wrong, look at the wide assortment of accepted evil on the planet and how grey human existance really is. It's a trade off and when you put it inprospective, having relations with two girls at the same time is really very minor.
Seems to me like you actually want to see for yourself what happens when these two meet. I'm sure you've run a bunch of different scenerios through your head about what exactly is going to happen. I guess it's your life but you should probaly expect the worst but you could always hope for something positive to happen... whatever that could be.
I don't know I mean you could potentially hurt one or both of these girls but I mean its just two more people on the planet i suppose. A lot of people would tell you that what you're doing is wrong and you should be ashamed of yourself but really you're just another human doing what it is that humans do. Not saying I approve of what you're doing but at the same time I don't think it's wrong.
If you guys want to see wrong, look at the wide assortment of accepted evil on the planet and how grey human existance really is. It's a trade off and when you put it inprospective, having relations with two girls at the same time is really very minor.