Cheating on Girlfriend...need advice/help

[Happiness Renewed]

Right now I am in a 4-5 week relationship with a girl who is now my girlfriend(hb 8). But as per DJ policy I was working on other girls... In particular a chick that is hb 9.5

Anyways, I had to put a little more time into this one...So now I'm dating two chicks @ the same time...I banged the 9.5 yesterday have been banging the other one for a few weeks as well. I am just curious as to what to expect when the girls find out what is going on(they are both clueless of the other) And since I attend a small university this will be happening probably pretty soon. ADVICE and HELP and OUTLOOK would be appreciated...

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

you sir are in idiot, when you do not have a girlfreind ie dating around you are suposed to date more then 1 girl to keep options open and not be desprate. But this site does not endorce cheating, it does not tell you to date other girls while you have a girlfreind.

 

[Happiness Renewed]

ok buddy, its not like that...I was working them both at the same time but hb 8 took the bait first so I dealt with her(she is very cute and has an awesome personality and ****..gf material) but what am I supposed to do when hb 9.5 starts chasing me!? this is unheard of for me...you think I am going to be like "Sorry girl of my dreams I will not bang you"....I dont ****in think so...of course I hit that, and now she wants a relationship and truth be told, I like her more than hb 8...Still...what the **** do I do?

 

[Albion4]

What's going to happen when they find out? They're both going to dump you, become friends, and make it their quest to let every female you encounter know exactly what a jerk you are. You tend to get burned when you play with fire.

but what am I supposed to do when hb 9.5 starts chasing me!?

You tell her you have a girlfriend and you're not interested. Tell her to go away. Problem is you already showed her that you have no will power in that department by sleeping with her. What's to stop her from telling the other girl what you did?

In your case now, what would I do? I'd become an AFC to the 9.5. Start calling her all the time, send her flowers everywhere, don't stand up for yourself, be stand offish, start talking about marriage, be a complete doormat. She'll eventually get bored and go away.

But Mick Jager said it best "You can't always get what you want... but if you try sometime you might find, you get what you need." I.E. if you choose the 9.5, you may be wishing 6 months down the road that you had stuck with the 8.0.

-Al

 

[Happiness Renewed]

What's going to happen when they find out? They're both going to dump you, become friends, and make it their quest to let every female you encounter know exactly what a jerk you are. You tend to get burned when you play with fire

F U C K ME!

In your case now, what would I do? I'd become an AFC to the 9.5. Start calling her all the time, send her flowers everywhere, don't stand up for yourself, be stand offish, start talking about marriage, be a complete doormat. She'll eventually get bored and go away.

Word.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

This is a trap that I have been wrestling with and ultimately I've had to let several of the women I've worked on over the last few months go because ultimately I don't want to be a sh*t to my steady.

My steady has done nothing to warrant me messing around on her so I won't. I still play the game but I just can't bring myself to screw over a good woman.

 

[nw1512]

Listen if you want to date more than one women at a time then do so,

Dont make any promises to them about comitment etc.

If they ask have you been sleeping of seeing someone else

DONT LIE, tell the truth

If they get all angry and upset.

Say something along the lines of

"Yes I am dating other girls, but there is nothing serious and i will not lie to you and i will not make any promises to you. I am not ready for a relationship but if something develops im not opposed to that."

But in order to do this you have to be very congruent with everything you say and do.

 

[Happiness Renewed]

Originally posted by nw1512
Listen if you want to date more than one women at a time then do so,

Dont make any promises to them about comitment etc.

If they ask have you been sleeping of seeing someone else

DONT LIE, tell the truth

If they get all angry and upset.

Say something along the lines of

"Yes I am dating other girls, but there is nothing serious and i will not lie to you and i will not make any promises to you. I am not ready for a relationship but if something develops im not opposed to that."

But in order to do this you have to be very congruent with everything you say and do.

Ye ye!@!!

This is gold, thanks buddy.

 

[Bussey]

Originally posted by nw1512
Listen if you want to date more than one women at a time then do so,

Dont make any promises to them about comitment etc.

If they ask have you been sleeping of seeing someone else

DONT LIE, tell the truth

If they get all angry and upset.

Say something along the lines of

"Yes I am dating other girls, but there is nothing serious and i will not lie to you and i will not make any promises to you. I am not ready for a relationship but if something develops im not opposed to that."

But in order to do this you have to be very congruent with everything you say and do.

True, if you want to go out with more then one girl you should do it, BUT you should make sure your not trying to be sneaky about it. Like if girl one asks what your doing, tell her the truth, you have a date. IF you make a commitment to one person you have to keep that!!!

In your situation, you're rightfully fukked! Cheating isn't cool! Its for that exact reason that dating has evolved from its beginning, where I'm sure, (don't quote me on it) that all guys had a fair chance at getting a girl to what it is now, where you really have to practice to get the girl you want and keep her...

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Originally posted by nw1512
Listen if you want to date more than one women at a time then do so,

Dont make any promises to them about comitment etc.

If they ask have you been sleeping of seeing someone else

DONT LIE, tell the truth

If they get all angry and upset.

Say something along the lines of

"Yes I am dating other girls, but there is nothing serious and i will not lie to you and i will not make any promises to you. I am not ready for a relationship but if something develops im not opposed to that."

But in order to do this you have to be very congruent with everything you say and do.

He hit it on the hammer

tell your gf your truth, it isn't "DJ policy" to lie to your gf

 

[penkitten]

karma baby... karma

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Don't worry - they are both hors!!!! If they find out about each other's hordoms tell them that you were dating both at approximately the sane time and you wanted to stay with the one who had the tightest vagina!! Get ready to block the hor slap in their attempt to keep the dignity that they do not have nor ever possessed!!!

 

[Bussey]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
you wanted to stay with the one who had the tightest vagina!! Get ready to block the hor slap in their attempt to keep the dignity that they do not have nor ever possessed!!!

Greatest Advice Ever!

 

[belividere]

What kind of help do you really need?

What type of situation do you have with the first girl? And by the way congrats on getting the hottie. But if you never told girl one that you are trying to be all serious or led her to believe that than what is the deal?

What Albion said really is a double edged sword. Okay so you chose one right now and are un-happy 6 months down the line. Honestly no matter which one you choose there is going to be a night or two where you look back and think you made the wrong decision. That is just human nature when it comes to decisions. But who cares? Have you put yourself in a situation right now where you have to make a decision. Or are you in a spot were it is casual dating and you can keep both of their interest levels high enough that when they find out about each other they will compete for you?

That position is not easy to achieve and once attained takes some serious skills to retain. I will be the first to admit that I have been in your spot and blown it. But given the competitive nature of females I have also been succesful with it. Basically when they find out about each other, which it sounds like they will, you may find yourself in a situation where they are willing to compete for you. It is really like the ultimate gualifier. But then again they may just team up and be b1tchy towards you. It is a situation that eventually will unfold. I hope for your sake it is the one that I described.

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
you sir are in idiot, when you do not have a girlfreind ie dating around you are suposed to date more then 1 girl to keep options open and not be desprate. But this site does not endorce cheating, it does not tell you to date other girls while you have a girlfreind.

You my friend have too much estrogen in your blood stream, and as a Man your testesterone level should be a lot higher.

HR
Listen homey, you are the Man in these beautiful relationships and therefore it is the woman's job to worry about you being with more then one woman not you. Sit back and enjoy your NOW, and if the time comes where they find out deal with it then.

The good thing is none of them can beat you up, so you dont have anything to fear, except coming here and hearing these lame girlie men post here.

All you cats here posting for the other side MAN-UP!!!

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Don't worry - they are both hors!!!! If they find out about each other's hordoms tell them that you were dating both at approximately the sane time and you wanted to stay with the one who had the tightest vagina!! Get ready to block the hor slap in their attempt to keep the dignity that they do not have nor ever possessed!!!

Yet another f*cking classic!

 

[ShortTimer]

Ok let's say you end up banging both women at the same time and one of them finds out. Here is what you have to say:

"Babydoll, I'm just too much man for any one woman to handle. So you can either have a peice of a winner, or go have yourself all of some loser. Now what's it gonna be?"

 

[DrSoSuave]

Weigh the pros and cons and make prepare to make a sacrifice.

Handling two women at the same time is quite difficult money, energy, and time wise. Especially if one seems to be committed to you already.

Getting into relationships means compromise.

I'll be calling Joey Greco ahead of time of this situation:

http://www.cheaters.com/display.php?tid=91

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by DrSoSuave
Weigh the pros and cons and make prepare to make a sacrifice.

Handling two women at the same time is quite difficult money, energy, and time wise. Especially if one seems to be committed to you already.

Getting into relationships means compromise.

I'll be calling Joey Greco ahead of time of this situation:

http://www.cheaters.com/display.php?tid=91

Get out of here with all this cheaters crap. You posted this somewhere else also on here. This looks like spam to me. And if you are a man grow some balls.

 

[TheRelic]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
Don't worry - they are both hors!!!! If they find out about each other's hordoms tell them that you were dating both at approximately the sane time and you wanted to stay with the one who had the tightest vagina!! Get ready to block the hor slap in their attempt to keep the dignity that they do not have nor ever possessed!!!

Stfu.