Cheating gets girl back

[CherryBreaker]

It's happened to me several times but when I cheat or flirt with other girls after my girlfriend has done something bad to make me mad, they become psychotic and chase after me like there's no tomorrow. Writing poems, staying outside my porch, constantly calling, and crying about their dying love for me. Basically stalking.

Is this the ultimate challenge that gets right at them?

Shouldn't they be mad about what I did and just leave?

I feel bad in some ways but these girls are pretty and I know they have done it to a bunch of guys who wanted to be with them. Part of me wants this girl back but she let me down real hard when she did nothing for me on xmas.

I don't take that sort of selfish attitude knowing there's plenty of women in the world for me.

BTW, to really be a true Don Juan, one must look at all women as beautiful. I think I'm finally seeing the light when I've met several sort of thick women. They may not be attractive in appearance but the way they treated me like offering gifts, asking how I'm doing, and overall just nice in every way, I finally saw the light in woman's beauty. Sometimes its phsical and sometimes its personality, each and every one of them has a unique soul that is the beauty that they hold.

 

[frivolousz21]

COOKOO COOKOO

 

[abcd_z]

Pretty obvious, actually. By showing that you don't necessarily need them, and that you could get any other women you wanted, you create a higher value of yourself that she picks up on. That's not to say I'm advocating doing this if you're in a committed relationship. There are plenty of other ways to display higher value (DHV for short), but you won't find any of them here. I'd suggest checking out http://www.fastseduction.com

EDIT: Actually, here are a few direct links.
http://fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=5&mn=1072865062121237
http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2004/03/the_value_of_be.html

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by CherryBreaker

BTW, to really be a true Don Juan, one must look at all women as beautiful. I think I'm finally seeing the light when I've met several sort of thick women. They may not be attractive in appearance but the way they treated me like offering gifts, asking how I'm doing, and overall just nice in every way, I finally saw the light in woman's beauty. Sometimes its phsical and sometimes its personality, each and every one of them has a unique soul that is the beauty that they hold.

This explains everything.

You date fat women with low self-esteem, so they're so desperate for validation that they'll sit outside your porch all night singing poetry for fear of losing you.

Is that what you really want?

 

[abcd_z]

*snicker*

I skimmed over the last paragraph, so I completely missed that.

Okay, yeah. I stand corrected. He's probably just dealing with LSE chicks.

 

[Royal Elite]

Re: Re: Cheating gets girl back

Originally posted by squirrels
This explains everything.

You date fat women with low self-esteem, so they're so desperate for validation that they'll sit outside your porch all night singing poetry for fear of losing you.

Is that what you really want?

Actually that attitude will make him more attractive to women then you. It will make him appear less shallow, and women love that. The term attraction means you are doing things to "ATTRACT" not to "Repeal".
And you are right, even if you dont like them there is always something you can find about any woman that is attractive. Pointing those out is how you move to the highest level and thats being the charasmatic person.

 

[squirrels]

Re: Re: Re: Cheating gets girl back

Originally posted by Royal Elite
Actually that attitude will make him more attractive to women then you. It will make him appear less shallow, and women love that. The term attraction means you are doing things to "ATTRACT" not to "Repeal".
And you are right, even if you dont like them there is always something you can find about any woman that is attractive. Pointing those out is how you move to the highest level and thats being the charasmatic person.

It goes both ways. Yes, it makes you look less shallow, but it also makes you look like you're less demanding of your potential mates.

Given the context of the post, I highly doubt that these girls are "thick" like J-Lo's ass thick. They're too insecure.

And if he was comfortable with the women he was seeing, he wouldn't have worded it the way it is..."To be a TRUE DON JUAN, you have to date the big girls too." It sounds like justification.

Either that, or we have a failure to communicate.

 

[Royal Elite]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Cheating gets girl back

Originally posted by squirrels
It goes both ways. Yes, it makes you look less shallow, but it also makes you look like you're less demanding of your potential mates.

Given the context of the post, I highly doubt that these girls are "thick" like J-Lo's ass thick. They're too insecure.

And if he was comfortable with the women he was seeing, he wouldn't have worded it the way it is..."To be a TRUE DON JUAN, you have to date the big girls too." It sounds like justification.

Either that, or we have a failure to communicate.

Its not about dating any girl just because you find something attractive about her, its about the attitude that comes with it. You want to ultimately garner an image where everyone loves you, not just the fine women. That is what a charismatic person is, someone who everyone likes. The way you think comes across in your actions. So his attitude will come across to everyone, and hell attract pretty women also. Women love a man with a positive, upbeat attitude. The love a man who everyone (males/females) love.