Cheating ass b*tch?

[DonJuanByNature]

am I the only one who thinks you shouldn't go reading her messages. I would be really pissed if a girl started reading mine. As others said, you're only 16, don't get too worried. If you have this little trust, you're probably better breaking up and finding someone else.

listen, there are no rules in love and war... fck being a "gentleman" if you think she is telling you she going to sleep cause she tierd and you think some other dude is comming over, CHECK IT OUT lol (the fact if you feel that way is reason to break up or not take relationsihp seires)

 

[The Truth]

LISTEN MAN... assume the girl is cheating (cause even if shes not the fact that she made you feel the way she did, is already a sign she is not a girl for you, cause you should never feel that way in a "normal" relationship)...

This site is aimed at improving mens confidence not encouraging them to act paranoid!

Ive had moments of paranoia and distrust in my relationship. I even got to the point where I cheked my girlfriends text messages and emails and it turned out I was wrong......VERY wrong. The guys I thought she was seeing behind my back turned out to be chumps kissing her ass and she was blowing them off and even got quite nasty with some of them when they didnt get the message.

If I listened to my paranoia I'd have dumped her or cheated on her for no reason.

I'm with Docs. Even though it doesn't look good you need to validate this suspicion before you jump to conclusions.

 

[The Truth]

if shes not the fact that she made you feel the way she did, is already a sign she is not a girl for you, cause you should never feel that way in a "normal" relationship)...

yo..listen.. our gut "feeling" is given to us for a reason man, its what kept us alive in the woods (back in the day)...

More bollocks!

You talk about how she shouldnt make you feel like that in a "normal" relationship but if you dont get a touch jealous or suspicious once in a while you are too complacent. A complacent relationship is not a good relationship and THATS when your girl is most likely to cheat or in the least try to make you feel jealous.

But I don't believe you would know because inexperienced words like this and your mental abuse crap make me think you have never had a relationship and havent got a clue!

 

[DonJuanByNature]

But I don't believe you would know because inexperienced words like this and your mental abuse crap make me think you have never had a relationship and havent got a clue!

Listen, you just proved my point read the reply below cause I am going to quote you (from post above the one im quoting right now lol)

 

[DonJuanByNature]

Here it is.............

This site is aimed at improving mens confidence not encouraging them to act paranoid!

Ive had moments of paranoia and distrust in my relationship. I even got to the point where I cheked my girlfriends text messages and emails and it turned out I was wrong......VERY wrong.

okay..this is beutifull... you obviously havent read all my posts... I specifically said there is no rules in love and war!!!... in fact, to one kid who posted "she didnt feel good, and stayed home" (he thaught another guy was there) i said next her, unless he really sees some future potential at which point I told him to show up with hot soup and say "I wanted to suprise u with this soup that I made you, it is the same soup my grandmother made me when I also didnt feel good, it should make you feel better" lol or something like that.. the point is, if a man was there he would know about it...

JUST like you went through the pager! so I am not preeching to be paranoid and dump the girl as soon as there is a sign.. im just saying that, most likely then not if your gut is teeling u something is wrong, there probably something is, and you can next her, or if you really love her do the necessary "validation" to determine if it is a real concern...

also..i want to point out that your gut feeling was partially right.. i.e. there WAS another guy.. u just happen to be lucky that the other guy couldnt "compete" with you, now if he was a better catch, can you BLAME a girl for keeping her options with a better catch? i.e. why not? genetically they want to find the best nest i.e. the most "feathered" nest....

How often have we heard a girl marrying 4.5 months right after getting out of a LTR? hmmmm wow only 4 months? i.e. what about all the other months of communication that you werent aware of.... listen man... I am saying how it is.... sometimes people dont want to hear the truth cause it hurts.... if you get married.. 45-50% chance you will get divorce... if you re-marry, 60% (yes higher) that you will get divorced again.... it is what it is man... and then you see some poor lady stays with a man that DOESNT EVEN APPRECIATE HER lol....

 

[milrenkb]

Look, the girl did you a favor. She basically told you that 'I'm not worth your time and effort.' No longer will you have to wonder. Being Cheated on is only a big deal if you make it one. Take it from me, if you allow yourself to remain bitter than your attitude will reflect that. In turn, all the women you do meet that are worth your time and effort will be scared off by a creepy vibe of bitterness you telegraph. So in summary, relax, don't worry, and meet someone worth your 'time and effort.'

Best of luck....

 

[Krassus]

Wait, so she told another guy that she LOVES him and you're... not sure how to contfront this? Here's a pair of Nike's. RRRUNNN! That's how you confront it