Cheating and jealousy

[Pandora]

So this chick is my gf. We have been dating for about 2 years on and off. She was a virgin till about 2 months ago till when i took it. I have been in relationships before and i never had a jealousy issue. Tonite i meet her out downtown. She see's some "guy friends" she knows from middle school. She runs over to them and gives them hugs. She introduces them to me. These dudes look real shady kinda like guys who try to be fake tough gangster wannabe's. I give em all handshakes and i leave. She tells me that she is going to stay with these dudes and her friend who came with her. I say cool. Later on in the night i find out that these guys invited them to a local dinner around 2am and they went ( she called me before they went to the diner).

Normally i would not care. She seems super trustworthy. But i have seen way too many chicks cheat. I have seen girls cheat on their bfs and act like nothing happened. I have seen chicks introduce the guy they are cheating with to their current bf like it is nothing. My question is how can guys that have experienced the best and worst of human nature still trust females. Even though this girl is pretty trustworthy I still cant trust a girl 100% becuz of everything i have seen. You just never know. This leads to jealousy and other issues. How do u experienced guys handle that.

I feel like i am scarred from everything i have seen in the dating world. I have seen girls cheat on their fiancee for months and then call their fiancee every night like nothing happened. I have seen married women sleep with half of the population of my social circle. After seeing stuff like that its hard to ever trust a female. But trust is needed for a healthy relationship.

 

[Desdinova]

She was a virgin till about 2 months ago till when i took it.

I take it she's a bit on the young side.

These dudes look real shady kinda like guys who try to be fake tough gangster wannabe's. I give em all handshakes and i leave. She tells me that she is going to stay with these dudes and her friend who came with her. I say cool. Later on in the night i find out that these guys invited them to a local dinner around 2am and they went ( she called me before they went to the diner).

Women in their late teens / early 20s are in party mode. They're going to do sporadic stuff like this. They generally don't have any desire to settle down until they're around their mid-20s.

Now, if you really did take her virginity, you're going to have a better chance at keeping her around than any other guy after you. Over the years, I've noticed that women subconsciously keep track of the most valuable men in their lives like a high score list on a video game. Usually the guy who takes her virginity is in the top. Other significant guys can be ones she's been in a LTR with, guys she had crushes on, and so forth. Women may go back to these men in their high score list from time to time especially when given the opportunity while dating a guy who's score doesn't even register.

By taking a woman's virginity, you have been placed in the high score list (unless you raped her)

 

[Harry]

Yeah, "like it's nothing." Actually, if they introduce the guy they are cheating with to their boyfriend, it's because they think they are that awesome. It's a major ego boost for the girl. After all, it's all about her, isn't it?

 

[switch]

if you let your wife/girl, stay out with a bunch of strangers at 2am ,away from your observation ,then you are as worthless as a piece of ****oris cut away from the corpse of a back alley slVt in washington D.C.

you either have no balls or dont give a flying fvck about your woman kissing you 2 hours after she was throat fvcked by a big wannabe gangsta with herpes.
i suggest you start using acyclovir

 

[Pandora]

I take it she's a bit on the young side.



Women in their late teens / early 20s are in party mode. They're going to do sporadic stuff like this. They generally don't have any desire to settle down until they're around their mid-20s.

Now, if you really did take her virginity, you're going to have a better chance at keeping her around than any other guy after you. Over the years, I've noticed that women subconsciously keep track of the most valuable men in their lives like a high score list on a video game. Usually the guy who takes her virginity is in the top. Other significant guys can be ones she's been in a LTR with, guys she had crushes on, and so forth. Women may go back to these men in their high score list from time to time especially when given the opportunity while dating a guy who's score doesn't even register.

By taking a woman's virginity, you have been placed in the high score list (unless you raped her)

Naw she is in her mid twenties. Home body and was very sheltered. The thing i have noticed is that when girls lose their virginity and you break up with them, they go through that crazy mode where screw like crazy. You are correct though they do keep the high score list with the guy who took it being on top.

 

[Pandora]

To make it clear, i was with my boys. I told her to come out. She came out with her girl but they came out late. My friends wanted to go and she wanted to stick around. I thought let me not be insecure and let her do her thing and see what happens. She has been clingy lately and i talk about her getting out more. But i didnt quite think it would be like this lol. Subconsciously i think i might want to catch her doing something so i can have a reason to next her and move on to another plate. Or maybe i just think i got it on lock idk...the point is that women have the ability to cheat and act like nothing happened so even if ur girl is "trustworthy" you never really really know. Even if you screen your girl can still cheat.

 

[switch]

dude,if she respected you as a man she would have left the place with you.