cheated on

[Sexual]

Been dating this girl for 6 months. We were arguing a like a month ago and I took off for St. Croix and only called her like 4 times in two weeks.

I came back and our relationship had never been better. I learn two days ago that she made out with two guys in two nights. I can forgive that because I've kissed women too.

Here's the part that's driving me nuts: two girls she was hanging out with that week told me she slept with these guys. These girls hate her with a passion now though because God knows why. She already admitted to kissing them but denys anything else, and I sort of trust her because it's not in her personality to just sleep with a guy (I'm her second and she's 18). I really love her and this is killing me, but I can go back to being a DJ if it's necessary.

Should I investigate further?
Try to forget it and continue a good thing?
Dump her all together?

 

[spider_007]

chicks sometimes lie about other chicks (especially when they hate her), god knows why that is. Try and find out the truth only if it metters. If you think you love her and you think you can't handle the truth then don't. leave it as is. I personally would find the guys and see what's up. If she did fvuck them, then, it's over.

And what are YOU doing making out with two chicks, when you have a g/f of 6 months. I'm tempted to say; you deserve it.

 

[the phenom]

yeah, you've first got to try and find the guy. Otherwise, every little she does odd will make you wonder. Had it happen to myself. And then comes the insecurity and everything goes downhill. So yeah, find this guy.

 

[Lost In Translation]

I learn two days ago that she made out with two guys in two nights

ok who did you find out from ?

her or someone else ?

her = good sign

someone else = bad sign

I sort of trust her because it's not in her personality to just sleep with a guy

WHAT A LOAD OF AFC $HIT

but it's in her nature to get with 2 other men in 2 nights that aren't you

you didn't see that one coming ( her being easy )

alcohol changes all that my brother

is it in a guys personality to just sleep with your gf ?

HELL YES

these dudes that your woman is kissing you think they just " wanted to be friends "

or you think their goal that night was to " get her drunk and f*ck her brains out " ?

to be fair to your woman

you say you kissed other women

did you have sex with any of them ?

if yes than think about what a hypocrite you are and live with it

yes say out loud " yes she slept with them " and move on


but if you didn't sleep with these other women and you while kissing them think you and your girlfriend are some sort of exception to the rule of wh0res as you both cheated technically

by all means kick a$$ and take names


and lastly to not judge you

I WOULD DO WHAT YOU DID LOL

i would have hooked up with other chicks

when i found out my gf ****ed 2 guys

i would dump her

yes i am a hypocrite

but i am a man LOL and i couldnt take that **** in my heart

but thats just me



Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “

 

[Sexual]

Thanks guys that's really what I needed. I'll call one or both up on the phone. Hopefully he'll believe that I won't come for him in his sleep or something and tell me the truth.

 

[Sexual]

Thanks for your input too, Lit. Thanks especially for making me see that if she can kiss two guys in two nights she can damn well of slept with them. And yes, someone else told me. Ouch, huh. I know how men are and I know what they were after. I've been with many women and I really know how they can be- we won't stop at just making out with a girl all night and not expect more.

 

[Rockadeimis]

Don't make the same mistake I did...leave while you still can. If you can't have trust in a relationship, you have nothing.

 

[Sexual]

Originally posted by Rockadeimis
Don't make the same mistake I did...leave while you still can. If you can't have trust in a relationship, you have nothing.

Hmm....