"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cheated On Her Boyfriend..

Don Wha

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Forty0ztoFreedom said:
So if early 2000's Jessica Alba walks into your room and offers to lay in bed with you naked, you see it as a waste of time?

You just like teasing yourself. To me, this is the girl putting something you want in your face and not letting you have it. Like teasing a dog with a treat.

Personally, if a girl and I were naked, we're going to be having sex. No, just laying naked BS. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate a woman's body as much as the next guy. I love laying naked with a girl, but only AFTER we already had sex. Plus, it makes it easier to have sex again in the morning :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Forty0ztoFreedom

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Well I think Daven is suggesting that I'm coming from a place of scarcity, and putting a girl on a pedestal, like I'm just laying around but its cool because I have the PRIZE with me. I think he may have a point.
 

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Well, you can either learn from this or not. Do you want to graduate to screwing MARRIED women and wrecking families? OR keep your standards even when you are drunk? I've been drunk and had married women hit on me,ugly women hit on me,etc.BUT I've learned to THINK even when drunk.
 
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