"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Cheated of GF, what a d1ckhead

Duracell_Bunny

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It was a stupid thing to do and it's not something I have done before.

Me and my long term (living together) had a little fall out and things started going bad between us, the "spark" was loose. I got super horny as there was no sex for a while, and was thinking about breaking it off. Had an easy opertunity with an old contact outside of my social circle. This contact doesn't have my real number or other means of contacting me, it was just too tempting.

I went over to her place, and she did anything my GF doesn't do for me. She was dressed in sexy lingere and has a much better figure than my GF. Blew me off with the most intense orgasm and exploded in her mouth while it really turned her on as she played with herself.

Had a night out a few days before, was chatting to other woman, all were just completely full of themselves and stuck up on their high horse in a non-lady like way. Most acting like men. It made me feel depressed realizing the number of quality woman must be very low. One came back to the hotel room with me, we were kissing and she knew I was in a relationship, but reality kicked in and I told her I better get to sleep, and she left.

Things have re-kindled with my GF as we spoke about how unhappy we have become. It came to our realization that we have simply become too complacent with each other by living together. The excitement had gone, and we got stuck in a boring routine. Although she looks fine, she feels overweight simply because the scales have gone up a few pounds. It is great to have those feelings back of looking forward to coming home from work to her. At the moment we can't keep our hands of each other.

I had doubts for a long time about my hapiness in this relationship. Cheating on her made me realize, although she's not perfect shes a hard one to come by. The cheating was exciting at first, but after the release it's true that it isn't that great and I certainly don't feel like doing it again - been there and done it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JoeMarron

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It'll happen again. She'll get bored, you guys will get complacent or you'll get anxious to see other women. Thats the natural cycle of monagamous relationships. Its up to you to decide if you wanna push through it, break up, cheat again, open the relationship etc.
 

Cremasta

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Ok, now you've got that off your chest...

Delete this thread immediately. You do not want the risk of her possibly reading this post. There is no advantage to her finding out about this.
 

AlphaGhost

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^^lol at cremasta..

This is something I've always battled with...
and it comes down to, if you ask me: either you stopped being the person that excited her initially (aka you stopped being interesting)
OR
Your still being amazing but the other person has started to take it for granted and is no longer trying (usually the women, but it can also be the guy)

What i find helps is just never stopping on bettering yourself, cause it makes people draw to you when they see your ambition and your self worth isnt dependent on them, also I think it lights a match under the other person making them also want to better themselves to "keep up".

But sometimes, its hard to keep things fun but thats what game is all about
 

Bokanovsky

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Sounds like your GF is a fatty...and not much fun between the sheets either. All of this begs the question: why are you with her??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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