cheat sheet

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Blackgame

Don Juan

Jun 14, 2012

Mental game
Workout
Affirmations
Go over stack

openers
Direct on solos
Brad P's cotton Candy opener on 2 sets

Attraction
assume attraction
one minute or less number close to build intrigue

Sexual framing
Rings on finger
Strawberry fields
Palm reading
SOIs

Identify stack
paying moms bills
talk about my dreams and ambitions
Trust test

ISO plays
I am having so much fun

Points to remember
treat all dates like same night lays
Over state I am not looking for a gf
Keep the interaction sexy NO friendship vibe

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.