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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cheap Cologne...

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Originally posted by MightyMate
Cheap girls like cheap stuff.
Said it like a pro! You really cant go wrong with burberry or obsession considering I never buy my own cologne. Girls get it for me on my bday and christmas. I got 2 burberrys this christmas and obsession on bday.....I did buy the cool water myself but thats because its not expensive.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I use hugo boss baldessarini and perry ellis 360 (red), and girls love it. especially the baldessarini. dont buy aqua di gio , since everyone and their dogs have that cologne, its not even funny anymore.
 

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You don't need to spend 50-70$ for a good cologne. Most good ones are around $40 (for 1.2 ounces I think, which is enough to last you a long time).

I have Davidoff Cool Water Deep and Armani Acqua di Gio. They're both great colognes, but Acqua di Gio is a little common. Cool Water Deep is good because it smells real nice (I think it's a lot better than regular Cool Water), and it's not quite as common.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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abercrombie original - never gotten any feedback on it watsoever.
abercrombie fierce - girls love it. at $40 a bottle, ain't bad[but i wrok there, so i get ti all cheap now.]
Drakkar Noir - good stuff, always good feedback every time tis been worn.
Kirra Cologne[from pacsun]- no feedback. but a girl did buy it for me. its....eh.
and Aqua Di Gio - good stuff. jsut got it 2 days ago. but i know for fact women love ths stuff.

don't buy cheap cologne. a bottle will last you like a year ATLEAST...so $40-60 to smell good for a year+ isn't that bad.

if nothing else, tell your mommy you need some good cologne, and ask for her help to pick some out. she'll probably pay for it if shes nice and helped you pick it out.
 

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Using no cologne is better than using a cheap one

These two are my current favourites

Channel - Allure Homme Sport

Gucci - Envy Me

I also have some CK one, but its not THAT good
 

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I generally wear Hugo Boss and get a good amount of compliments on it. Today I went out to get a new kind. I had two slips from the lady behind the counter and started asking other girls as I walked around which one they liked better. The two choices were between and Kenneth Cole Reaction and Armani Black Code. Most of them liked both but in the end the Black Code was the most liked of the two.
 

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Originally posted by Patrick124
abercrombie original - never gotten any feedback on it watsoever.
abercrombie fierce - girls love it. at $40 a bottle, ain't bad[but i wrok there, so i get ti all cheap now.]
Drakkar Noir - good stuff, always good feedback every time tis been worn.
Kirra Cologne[from pacsun]- no feedback. but a girl did buy it for me. its....eh.
and Aqua Di Gio - good stuff. jsut got it 2 days ago. but i know for fact women love ths stuff.

don't buy cheap cologne. a bottle will last you like a year ATLEAST...so $40-60 to smell good for a year+ isn't that bad.

if nothing else, tell your mommy you need some good cologne, and ask for her help to pick some out. she'll probably pay for it if shes nice and helped you pick it out.
They should last you A LOT longer than a year unless you're spraying yourself with it 10 times a day. I've had my Acqua di Gio bottle for almost a year now and I probably use it a couple times a week (just one spray each time I use it, which is all you should use), and I've only used about 1/5th of the 1.7 ounce bottle.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Check the Archives for a thread about cologne already. Has some REALLY good stuff in there.
 
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