"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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tomcat2007

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Hey Guys:
Me and this chick swapped each others numbers. She gave me hers without hesitation(I never asked.) Everytime I call her she is always busy and says she will call me back-but never does. However, there have been times when she gave me a ring and had some decent conversations(ex. short and good not long and boring) and is always chatting on msn(whoo-hoo!-hahaha?). We went out a couple of times. But lately cant get together, keep having to rearrange a schedule. Am I reading to much into this. What should I do. Shes pretty "bleeping" cute. Later.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

armadon

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Play the game with her or don't pursue, not many choices really.
 
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