"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chatting with this chick?

tomcat2007

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Hey Guys:
Me and this chick swapped each others numbers. She gave me hers without hesitation(I never asked.) Everytime I call her she is always busy and says she will call me back-but never does. However, there have been times when she gave me a ring and had some decent conversations(ex. short and good not long and boring) and is always chatting on msn(whoo-hoo!-hahaha?). We went out a couple of times. But lately cant get together, keep having to rearrange a schedule. Am I reading to much into this. What should I do. Shes pretty "bleeping" cute. Later.

The Tomcat
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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armadon

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Play the game with her or don't pursue, not many choices really.
 
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