"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chatting up women

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Chatting up women you are not interested in not sure if you guys do it, I do. It puts a smile on the woman's face, I've been talking to a woman I guess she's early 30s found she's married and has kids, she's cute. She works in a department store she notices me right away when I walk in and smiles, now I notice she gives me the look when I walk by and not talk to her.

I know its not a wise idea to be chatting up a married woman, in my previous job I interacted with lots of women through out the day women like talking to me. I had women come up to me to ask questions that they already had answers too I would say if you already knew why did you ask they would giggle and say they wanted to talk to me. The BPD girl I worked with in a dysfunctional relationship with would go ape sh*t when women would talk to me her jealous streak would come out. I made friends with all the female staff at work they loved talking to me when I visited the other departments in the company the women knew me.

I have lots of female friends I know its a cardinal sin, most of them I'm not interested in sexually. What I really like is when good looking women flirt with me and I don't flirt back, I don't like to toot my own horn but I've been told by women that I'm a good looking guy. I encounter quite a few touchy feely women.

Its backfired on me a few times being friendly to women that I'm not totally interested in, one woman I was chatting up, she was doing all the signs of being interested adjusting her clothes, the hair twirling, giggling etc. She has kids and divorced I didn't want to get involved with that mess. She started getting miserable with me I guess because I wasn't reciprocating the same feelings. It took nearly 6 months before she stopped being miserable to me she still smiles and waves when she see's me but I don't see her too often anymore.

I don't mind being friends with women I know its not a wise idea hopefully this dept store girl doesn't get any ideas, no matter how attractive she is women with kids does nothing for me.

Fvcking with women's feelings has burned me big time once already the BPD said I hurt her feelings she was crushed. You guys chat up women for the hell of it ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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