"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chatting up girls outside the library

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I'm a grad student at a university in Boston. Anyway, the weather is finally starting to recover and consequently there are a lot of people, including some damn fine ladies, lounging outside the library. I'm extremely shy - your stereotypical 27 year old virgin - any advice about how I should go about chatting up random bints without looking like a complete fool or getting them calling campus security?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Where in Boston bro,that's where I live. Hit me up,maybe we can work together....
 
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Clarification: I don't actually live in Boston but in another well known university town in New England that I'd rather not reveal given that I'm new to this forum. I chose Boston because it didn't imply any particular university.

Sorry if this sounds a little paranoid, but I value my privacy, especially since I'm currently trying to get a faculty position.
 
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I totally understand. Hell,I don't like putting my picture or myspace out there for privacy reasons. Well,were in ne then? And just how would it affect getting the position or not?
 
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library?
I swear on my life I met the girl I will one day marry at my community library madly in love with her still...

I''ve hooked up with 3 girls at my library... as in met them there and ended up making out downstairs out the door...

libraries make girls horny as ****???

lol thats a joke laugh lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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