“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Chatting up bar chicks

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Ok, here is a quick tip.
Most girls that work at bars are flat out. They haven't got time to stand there and talk to you, because there are heaps of other people waiting for drinks. Sure you could go early.. or really late, when it isn't that busy.. but here is a simple trick that I wish I thought of earlier.

Order something that takes a while to make.
That's it. If you order normal tap beer or a mixed drink and they are done in a minute and you haven't had a chance to chat.
But order something like guiness (where they wait for it to settle) or a ****tail (that they put lots of stuff in), and you have a good few mins to chat while she's making your drink. Do that a few times through the night and you've got a massive advantage over some schmo who tries to hold her up after she's poured his pint and ready to move to the next person.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Unless you have instant chemisty with a bar girl, my advice is to become a regular at the venue that has one (or more) bar girls you like, and build rapport over time. And being friendly with all of the bar staff (male and female) is a must. Chatting up the owner won't hurt, either. In short, make friends with the staff, e.g. make small talk without being a nuisance, and offer to buy them drinks, and then see what happens when you start to game your target. A good challenge, and it passes the time inbetween chasing cute patrons. :D
 
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