"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ojete

Don Juan
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I remember like 1 year ago when you organized chats in the irc server. The logs were in the Bible too. ¿What happened? sometimes i log into the chat and i don't see anybody. ¿Why don't you organize chats again? i think they were a nice idea to have. Bring the weekly chats back!!

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btw, what happened to the chat transcripts that were in the Bible??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Caveman

Master Don Juan
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I am there sometimes but when there's no one there I might wait and do other things while waiting, only to come back and see someone has been trying to talk to me, got tired of waiting for a reply and went off again.
 

Hot Ice

Master Don Juan
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I just came back from 3 week holiday and willing to stay logged there from now on once more..

Check out my signature for details.
 
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