"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I havent done anything productive all day and now that Im thinking about it, i've been meaning to try out chatrooms and stuff when it comes to sarging,

what are some sites that are free and dont come with a bunch of baggage and actually have ppl in them?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No offense man but that's one of the worst ideas you could possible have in my opinion... chatrooms/online dating sites are a lazy and, to be quite honest, overall poor/stupid alternative to real life sarging. Now, can you probably get women through these mediums? I'm not going to say no. But I've always considered the quality/caliber of women using these mediums to be terrible... severe self-esteem issues & emotional baggage isn't something I'd personally like to pursue.

But hey, that's me. In regards to your actual question I can't really answer since, based on my opinion above, I don't mess with that sh*t. Good luck if you actually end up doing it, but I think it's a huge mistake to pursue online sarging when real life sarging is so much more beneficial.
 

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Try IRC. You can always find some interesting people on there...
 

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Search the forum for a thread by Player Supreme about online sarging. It's not different than sarging on the street, you just need more skills than the average DJ wannabee.
 

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It may work temporarily.

Going online to met girls works to a certain level. Yet if you don't have the right skills then it will usually go nowhere. Depending on your skill level going online may possibly work, just if you are an AFC don't use that alternative.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think online dating sites, chat rooms, or internet dating as a whole is a very rich environment to C&B if you are a WBAFC because C&B has never been so easy when it's online. If anyone here can think of a more efficient and easier C&B to online dating, I'd like to hear it!
 
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