"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Someone told me there is a chat room on this website is that true? And I'm not quite sure what is available to me. so many articles lead to spending money on differnt ebooks. can someone help me out. the homepage isn't realy clear on what we get by joining here? does it cost anything? i've heard good things but whats the best way to utilize this website?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Here is the LINK to the chat room thread. It is in the anything else forum. Your going to have to send penkitten an email to get added to the list to enter it. Click on her name, then click on view profile, then click on send EMAIL to penkitten.

The PM won't work, her box is too full, I just tried earlier.

Don't worry about spending money on ebooks, most of the good stuff is available for free. I find the bible very valuable, (link in my sig) and its completely free.
 
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I downloaded the 9mb book is that the same thing as your link?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I can't say I've read that version but its a new version and it's pretty popular so I'd say you'll be fine reading that. It should be a good start. It should give you alot of perspective into the question's you've been asking.
 
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