"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chat Log thread!

Immaculate

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Ok all you pimps out there this is a request to post your chat logs to females online to help us brothers out who can't find the right words to say when chatting with a girl. So please post some good chat logs you've had with females in this thread. Much appreciated. I was just chatting with this girl who says she's a freak and she loves bad boys. So she was telling me how depressed she is right now so I jokingly said "i'll give you a spanking so you'll feel better".

She then said "you're sick"

and then "gotta go bye" and logged off.

WTF? I didn't say anything that bad.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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al77

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Originally posted by Immaculate


I was just chatting with this girl who says she's a freak and she loves bad boys. So she was telling me how depressed she is right now so I jokingly said "i'll give you a spanking so you'll feel better".

She then said "you're sick"
and then "gotta go bye" and logged off.
WTF? I didn't say anything that bad.
a) "bad boys" are not assosiated in women's mind with spanking for sure. Not even with anal sex or anything like that.
The imagine of bad boys is about somebody who looks cool, aggressive, who doesn't give a sh*t what other think...
b) she said she was depressed right now? Run, man, run...
then anything you say would not be right. If she is in crabby mood, just let her calm down and talk to her some other time.
I learnt it this way: when women are having PMS some of they could become incredible crabby and nomatter when I say it would make them pissed off. I figured out it is much better to leave her alone for a while and come back later.
 

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i understand why you started this thread, but its not that easy so you can just copy it or learn from it

its a question of hooking up with the right girl and then just let the words flow, picking up on anything she writes

sometimes it works, sometimes you are too far apart to get some sparkles

example with the 'bad' boy is classic

you two simply dont mean the same when you say bad boy !

what worked for you on monday with one girl is not at all garantied to work for you tuesday with another girl

like they say in the marines; Improvise, Adapt and Overcome

/ scordate
 
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