"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chasing the love of my life

christoff522

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Bible_Belt said:
When I was just a little bit younger than you, I had a girl that I thought was the love of my life. Then I turned into Forrest Gump. I love you, Jenn-nay! Why are you running away Jen-nay? That was fifteen years ago. She is still really awkward about even talking to me, because she's afraid I'll act the same way. She sends me a drunken facebook message occasionally, then won't respond when I respond. She's taken care of herself really well and still looks good, but I really don't see her as that hot anymore. It would be too easy to get a girl half her age for me to think of her as that hot.

That's what happens as you go from your 20's to your 30's. Women your own age become less attractive compared to the younger crop.
Very true...i find girls in their late teens early 20s to be the hottest. Every now and again a girl slightly older or around my age who seriously looks after herself, will get my attention.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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