"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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chasin a who girl just got out of a LT engagment

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Been seeing this girl close to a month now. She just got out of a very long engagement. Not sure how to go at this one. She seemed to really be into me. We made out an she called to tell me how much fun she had. She told me that she wants to take it a day at a time an I understand that. Had'nt spoke with her in bout a week so I called her an asked her out. She has a cold so no on tonight an a family thing this weekend. Just how to I go about this one ? I really like this girl an dont want to push her too hard, really not sure how to go about it. Thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bad news buddy, you will be get over material. If you are just looking for a lay then go for it, otherwise keep her as a "friend" for now.
 
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Country feller said:
She told me that she wants to take it a day at a time an I understand that.
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Forget that, its chick fluff. A woman can think shes truly in "love" with guy A yet be bouncing off guy B's d!ck not an hour later. Chick rationalisation dont ask.

Treat her like any other target, the long engagement is a non issue.
 
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I would leave it alone...you are wasting your time. She has too much emotional baggage at this point for you to become involved. You will end up becoming very frustrated through this if you continue, due to this baggage. Out of curiosity where are you country feller?
 
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She's on the rebound. Most rebound relationships don't work out, so I wouldn't put too much hope on this one. As driver55 said, she's still carrying emotional baggage from her last relationship. Over time, she'll get rid of most of it. But she's most likely going to flake on you because she misses her ex. Emotions fade with time, but she's still feeling them from her last relationship. You won't become "important" to her if she's still having strong feelings about her ex.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is my last post on this board an no I wont reply to what ya'll got to say. First off There is more to the story than I told. I have known this girl along long time. When she told me she couldnt see me these past few days her reasons were 100 %. She did just get out physically from this guy but been gone emotionaly for awhile, we have been talking with ea other since last summer. She gave me her # I didnt ask for it. Knock on wood I anit lost in love yet, yes a few left but allways tried to come back. To aws your ? but were I am from , its a place where a guy still looks at a girl as a human being an not some peice of meat. This site is nothing more than a way to get ass. In the words of Ray Scott "I anit too foward with the ladys, flash a smile an tip my hat, but I been finding out here lattly theres a few thats still into that"
Country charm an yeah mainly acting like myself has been workin for me along time. Not real sure why I though ya 'll could help. I'll keep keepin on....
 
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To aws your ? but were I am from , its a place where a guy still looks at a girl as a human being an not some peice of meat. This site is nothing more than a way to get ass. In the words of Ray Scott "I anit too foward with the ladys, flash a smile an tip my hat, but I been finding out here lattly theres a few thats still into that"
Country charm an yeah mainly acting like myself has been workin for me along time. Not real sure why I though ya 'll could help. I'll keep keepin on....
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You came here asking, because it is'nt working in this case....
Yes I agree, ladies should not be treated just as "pieces of ass". But then ask yourself, how many ladies have you really met?
 
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I met and have been with a girl that got out of an engagement last summer. Things have been great with us. If you want to go for it then go for it you always risk getting hurt with anygirl so why avoid this one ?
 
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Your problem lies in the title of this thread....

Stop chasing women and let them chase you... woman are happiest when they are doing the chasing...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Country feller said:
She seemed to really be into me.
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Sorry to bust your l'il bubble brother but you're her mustard fart which is momentarily tangy but quickly forgotten in the breeze. NOTHING will make her feel better than attention. Attention from you and every other guy who meets her gaze. Don't be on the losing end. Read the DJ bible and take her a$$ to school. In the long run, she'll appreciate it.
 
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