"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Zarky

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I can't comment on fat vs skinny but I am 5'8 and thin and I get cougars giving me the eye all day long. Just joined a gym so that might fix it, though I'll never be tall so that sucks. Want to attract some chicks my age rather than MILFs.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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runner83

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Zarky said:
I can't comment on fat vs skinny but I am 5'8 and thin and I get cougars giving me the eye all day long. Just joined a gym so that might fix it, though I'll never be tall so that sucks. Want to attract some chicks my age rather than MILFs.
I'm the same height myself. Not much we can do about it.

Since I have bulked up (from 155 pounds up to 185 pounds), it seems like hotties check me out more.

Or perhaps, it is just that I am more confident and notice it more.

Lifting weights and getting your muscle mass up will give you benefits far beyond women, primarily more confidence in yourself as a man.

For a lot of years, I used to do just cardio - I was very fit, but muscle mass was minimal. All those wasted years of extra cardio that ultimately had no real benefit (above a basic level) that I could have put instead towards lifting weights.

But never too late so get stuck into it. But remember to start slow and build up.
 

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Wait till you are in your 40's or 50's.

Entire herds will be trying to mount you. Especially if you are married.
 
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